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A valuable meme for any role-player!
Come display your comfort levels so your role-play partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time!
While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your role-play partners!
KEY
❤ - Absolutely / This is my preference
✓ - Yes / This is acceptable
≈ - We'll have to negotiate
✗ - Only under special circumstances
🚫 - Absolutely not / You can't make me
Comments in Italics!
THE BASICS
Locations
I am comfortable roleplaying over:
- Comments 🚫
- Chats 🚫
- Notes 🚫
- Forums ❤
- Skype 🚫
- Google Docs ❤
- Discord 🚫
- Direct Messages ❤
Participants
I am comfortable with:
- One on one role plays. ❤
- Up to three people. ✓
- Up to four people. ≈
- Five or more people! ≈
- As big as possible! ✗
Post Length
I usually write about:
- One or two sentences. ≈ Script-style only! Or phone calls.
- One or two paragraphs. ❤
- Two to five paragraphs. ❤
- More than five paragraphs. ✓
- A few pages worth. 🚫
I am comfortable role-playing with people who write:
- One or two sentences. ≈ Script-style only! Or phone calls.
- One or two paragraphs. ❤
- Two to five paragraphs. ❤
- More than five paragraphs. ✓
- A few pages worth. 🚫
Role-play Requests
I like getting requests from:
- Anyone and everyone at any time! ✗
- When I ask for role-plays. ✓
- From friends and acquaintances. ❤
- From friends only. ❤
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
** Important: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn't be abandoned for a fictional one either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance!
Shipping
I am comfortable shipping my characters:
- Never. ✓
- Our character know each other deeply. ✓
- Our character know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player. ❤
- At the first sign of flirting! ✗
- Only if the role-player and I plan it. ❤
- It depends on the character. ❤
If you want to ship with my characters:
- Talk to me about it from the start. ≈
- Talk to me about it once our characters know each other. ❤
- Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other. ❤
- Talk to me about it when they finally decide they want to go beyond hugging. ✓
- Try to coax me into a ship regardless of my character's feelings. 🚫
- Try to sell me on a ship I've declined or expressed uncertainty about. 🚫
- Attempt to sabotage any perceived "competition" from other players. 🚫
- Respect the fact that my characters and their feelings may change. ❤
- Please don't hate me if the relationship falls through. ❤
Crushes
If your character develops a crush on mine:
- Talk to me about it. ❤
- Hint at it occasionally through writing. ✓
- Have your character pine after mine in their thoughts. ≈
- Have your character get jealous and possessive of my character. ≈
- Have your character go behind my character's back and sabotage any "competition". 🚫
- Have your character develop an unhealthy obsession with my character. 🚫
- Depict an unhealthy obsession with my character as normal and romantic. 🚫
- Address an unhealthy obsession with my character in a way that both characters can learn, grow, and become healthier. ❤
- Understand that the characters may need to break up to become healthier people. ❤
Speed
When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:
- Swift as lightening! 🚫
- Fast, but not super fast. ✗
- Happens in about three months. ✗
- Slow and steady wins the race. ❤
- Slugs know what's up! ❤
- My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen. ❤
Smut When my characters gets intimate, I prefer:
- To skip the act entirely. ✓
- To write the build up, but skip the act. ✓
- To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise skip it. ✓
- To write the act all the way through. ✓
- To only ever write anything smut-related with partners I completely trust. ❤
Romantic Artwork
When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:
- Do not post it at all without talking to me. ✓
- Post it if it is cuddles and hugs. ❤
- Post it if it is kisses. ✓
- Post it if it is much more. ≈
- Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts! ≈
- Do not post it where I can see it, but draw what you like! ≈
DRAMATICS
** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!!
Violence
When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:
- No violence at all! ✓
- I'm fine with verbal arguments! ✓
- Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face. ✓
- Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling. ✓
- Violence, such as stabbings. ✓
- Beyond violence, such as torture and more. ✓
If you are going to do something violent, please:
- Don't do it at all. ✓
- Talk to me about it first. ❤
- Surprise me! 🚫
Abuse
If you want to include some form of abuse (physical, emotional, sexual, etc):
- Don't do it at all. ✓
- Talk to me about it first. ❤
- Mention that it happened but don't go into detail. ✗
- Go into detail about the abuse if it is relevant to the story and going to be addressed. ✓
- Write out full scenes of abuse or request my character participate in abuse. ✗
- Use the abuse as a long-term plot development for the sake of drama. 🚫
- Use the abuse of your character as a plot device to harm my character. 🚫
- Use the abuse in a manner that is romanticized or fetishized. 🚫
- Address abuse with thematic narrative intent that gives it proper weight and scope. ❤
- Give horrible abusers redemption plots. 🚫
- Write revenge plots to destroy horrible abusers. ✓
Character Death
If you want to kill a character off:
- Don't do it at all. ❤
- Talk to me about it first. ❤
- Kill a character to harm one of my characters. ✗
- Kill a character to free up a ship. 🚫
- Kill a character to give sufficient weight to the story and setting. ✓
- Kill a character for the sake of drama. 🚫
- Kill a character because you're tired of playing them. 🚫
Dramatic Artwork
- Do not post any dramatic scenes that happened between our characters. ≈
- Talk to me about it before posting! ❤
- Post what you like! ≈
MISCELLANEOUS
Genres
- Romance ❤
- Horror ❤
- Drama ❤
- Fantasy ❤
- Modern/Contemporary ❤
- Sci-fi ✓
- Realism ❤
- Tragedy ✓
- Mythology ❤
- Fandom ≈ I'm really particular.
- Other ✓
Characters That I Play
- Cisgender males ✓
- Cisgender females ✓
- Transgender males ✓
- Transgender females ✓
- Intersex individuals ✓
- Non-binary folks ✓
- Other ✓
- Humans ❤
- Humanoids ❤
- Anthros ✓
- Creatures (non- humanoids) ≈
- Animals ≈
- Other ≈
Characters That I'll Play With
- Cisgender males ✓
- Cisgender females ✓
- Transgender males ✓
- Transgender females ✓
- Intersex individuals ✓
- Non-binary folks ✓
- Other ✓
- Humans ❤
- Humanoids ❤
- Anthros ✓
- Creatures (non- humanoids) ✓
- Animals ≈
- Other ≈
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