* Gonna state this off the bat that I am no longer friends with Bride, and I have cut him off.
He has lied to many of his ex-friends, and most have cut him off as well.
This bulletin is not made to excuse Church’s or Atom’s toxic behaviors but bring light to what occurred, since not much information has been given within the event of harassment of a minor. (since people think atom is me)
(I am editing this in the case I missed information or need to update it since I wrote this immediately during 12am)I am writing this bulletin here because i sent in an ask to the blog but it has yet to be published. Has now been published.
This is regarding information a friend had brought to my attention.
An ask was posted concerning more information against bride:
https://toyhouse-dramas.tumblr.com/post/648497019400372224/fishstickbride-slimy-shit
Imgur Link: https://imgur.com/a/EAuxd5T (TW: F SLUR, ANTISEMITISM, S/H)
*JUST AS A NOTE THAT I DID NOT CREATE THE INITIAL ASK OR IMGUR ALBUM
With the lack of information as to who each individual in the screenshots is, my fear is that people have been left to assume who each person involved is and make assumptions. Hence my involvement and need to post this bulletin.
I will be using the screenshots provided in the Imgur since I believed that these proofs were long gone even after attempting to search for them to send over to the Thankyouforyourhelp toyhouse account that contains the initial callout for Atom. (Link to initial callout). Since I did not keep them.
*I did not bring up this topic publicly because I had no proof aside from my conversation with my friend which I had already provided to Thankyouforyourhelp, as well as my recollection of the event. Without proof, I believed it would be hard to make claims. I have written my reasoning in depth in the comment below.
I would like to apologize if it came off that I purposely avoided talking about this topic, I discussed this with the account with the original Atom callout but without evidence of it, there would be difficulty to settle a claim (until these screenshots were anonymously posted). It was never my intention to hide this event or excuse their behaviors, even if I was not involved with harassing the minor. I understand the lack of trust everyone has with recent events.
This specific screenshot has caused someone to point fingers at me 
To clear up names of those involved in this screenshot as well as others from imgur link:
- InkKYS is Sal
- InkGlitter (bright yellow) is Atom , he would ask to have bright yellow color
- I don't remember who Inkshitter is sadly.
- Blue Inkglitter is another minor who I will not name due to age.
- Pink Inkglitter is blue's mother
*PLEASE NOTE THAT I HAVE MEMORY ISSUES AND DON'T REMEMBER THIS AS BEST. SO I WILL UPDATE ONCE I CONFIRM WHO EVERYONE ELSE IS
With the mention of DBZ gifs, people assume it to be me because I am a big fan of it and have my page decorated in dedication it.
Here is the ask that is pointing fingers at me.
While I understand the skeptism that the individual can be me because:
1) I like DBZ
2) I use to be in close proximity to bride/fishstick/church
*I am no longer friends with Bride which I have stated in my previous bulletins regarding his involvement with Atom here
I left it without much detail because I will be honest that I considered Bride a very close friend prior to that and I am still currently dealing with a negative decline to my mental health due to the new information. As well as not wanting to talk about personal things publicly.
I will point out that Atom also liked DBZ, not to the extreme that I have my profile decorated but I has previously talked to him in a kinnie-chat the server had where he talked about kinning both Cell and Frieza. I don't have screenshots since this server has been long since deleted. (I don't know if this needed to be mention but it gives more context to the DBZ gif mention)
This user is in fact not me, I was the one who suggested that the whole situation revolving the said minor (Inkglitter) to stop. I have here screenshot of me talking to one of my close friends as this situation unraveled. As I don't have screenshots of the old server (Where this occurred).
I will not be naming my friend to keep their privacy, since they are not involved with the situation and is dealing with their own things.
Here, we were expressing our discomfort for the whole situation
Please open images in new windows for full view
EDIT (04/16/2021) : I MADE A MISTAKE WHEN MENTIONING HOW MANY USERS REPLIED TO IN RESPONSE TO THE MINORS VENT. I believe it to be around 5 people (most of the screenshots going around do not show everyone)
I censored the emote of their oc, since it gives away who this is. It is a thinking emoji just as reference.
I was the one who brought up to everyone that they should stop what they were doing (mocking and harassing user), as I was away talking to my friend about the event prior to this blowing up.
The entire situation spiraled because Atom had a strange hatred for the said minor involved and being harassed,
This is one of the screenshots from the imgur that show one of the instances of him @ ing them (one of many which i sadly don't have proof of)
"glitter" is the minors account before being kicked from the server. Once they were kicked, Atom & Co. continued harassing the user.
I was not involved in this event, nor did I partake in harassing the said user. I was not in the voice chat either, I was working on commissions that day.
The ones actively harassing the minor are the ones who have their names changed as seen here:
*those who didnt change their names did not partake, I have edited the screenshot to blur them out.
(excluding Sal who is Patrick Bateman real, who at this time hadn't changed their nickname in the server but is involved)
I tried my best to compile my side of this situation as best I could. If anyone has questions about me and any information I provided, please let me know whether comments or PM.
I was not involved with Atom and his actions, I had distanced myself from him prior to this and the future events following due to personal reasons that made me uncomfortable.
I wanted to share my part because Toyhouse Drama has not yet posted my ask in response to clear my name and any assumptions, but due to it not being posted I wanted to promptly settle this before it ended up spirally into misinformation.
I have also talked to the minor who was being harassed in these screenshots, as they have stated they want to put this event behind them.
I also kindly ask for everyone's patience if you have questions, since I am dealing with how heavy this whole situation has been. Thank you
HI I HOPE this doesn't sound rude or anything- I am not trying to be, I am just... trying to be upfront? blunt? I know Atom and Sal, especially Church now, probably are quite scary and I doubt you like conflict, so I'm not exactly blaming you, but I think it's good to get perspective since I know you were really close to Church.
But since these screenshots came out, it really made me wonder why you or anyone else didn't say anything to anyone outside of your social circle? I feel, especially after seeing Atom being visibly anti-Semitic is the server, alongside bullying a minor, it would have been wiser to say something when it happened?
I don't want to think you are involved, but like others that were involved in this server, there seems to be a degree of complacency that really needs to be addressed, especially as I assume if they do these things in a server, they've probably done or said worse, especially Atom, Sal, and Church.
I'm not really trying to be mean, but seeing all of these people, who I once interacted with, especially as a Jewish individual, it is a lot to deal with. And I am wondering why you had kept quiet regarding all of this, and had not called out the actions of Church himself and continued being his friend? Especially as he participated in these things, and allowed for them to happen.
Personally, I don't think It would sit right to me, at least, to not notify people that Church was allowing this and other content to be said, done, or even participated in, and not tell anyone? Idk... I know he worked on the callouts and stuff, but also I really don't think that absolves him from what he has done/said? IF THAT...makes sense. I think, especially since you were aware of this happen, to have at least said something about it to someone involved with the callouts, or brought it up earlier? I know this is really hard on you, since he was a close friend, but I think it's really starting to like... extend past he really just wanted a casin0s design, and rather, he was entirely participating in, laughing with, and having fun with, two Nazis who had really no filter in a personal server.
I don't know, I think it's just good to acknowledge what I, at least, perceive as an inaction to stop, or bring awareness, to their actions? I don't know, I'm sorry if this does sound mean, and feel free to correct me or anything, I have a lot of involvement, anxieties, and worries, regarding this situation as a Jewish individual who has been lowkey targeted by some of the individuals involved, especially as I am quite tired, and upset, with people who had sympathized, be complacent in, or otherwise, with the shitty people in this situation.
2 months, 15 days ago
Me and another user who saw had a fear that coming out about this publicly would result in Atom coming against us and creating fake posts, which he took a lot of pride in. This isn’t to excuse not coming up front, but with how long he was doing this it is very scary being in his presence. I can’t speak for the other person but we have communicated our discomfort for Atom previously. It is also the badmouthing that happens within that group, speaking up will lead to everyone piling against you because you are the “bad guy”. I feel like it is hard to express this feeling since no one else was in Atom’s presence but he is someone to be feared. Like if you hate atom he has the ability to destroy you
I talked about this with the initial callout posted by the Thanksforyourhelp account because it wasn’t included but as I stated, I didn’t have these screenshots (or any at all aside from the conversation I had with my friend) so all I could go off on was my memories of it. Which I think wouldn’t be sufficient without visible evidence of it, as I have been in contact with them [callout acc] since this situation has spiraled. Since screenshots of this came out, I got courage to make a bulletin since the imgur does not clarify who each person is.
My friendship with Church started to decline at the start of this, since I was not comfortable with harassing a minor which is absolutely disgusting as well as going along with Atom’s actions. I distanced myself from him and others by making new friends to interact with, I stayed in the server because of other internal conflicts that were arising and felt that I needed to stick around in case Church or anyone needed to reach out for assistance (since I did care about him and couldn’t bring myself to hate him since I had known him for 2 years and genuinely felt bad) .
I know it is very bad for me to stick around with this, but Church has lied to me and others about this situation and I only am starting to piece the whole story together. He has been talking behind everyone’s back, and as it was stated by him that he did not care about his friends.
He would claim that he wasn’t participating and was away from his computer while it’s all unfolding, but by piecing out stories from each other it is very visible that he was participating as well.
I use to be a moderator in that old server and we would have to send countless warnings for him [Atom] to stop (prior to this happening), but seeing how he talked about us in the previous callout it was obvious he didn’t care. I left the server one time because of Atom’s presence being too much as I would talk about my discomfort only see him getting close with Church (which was a big red flag for me), and seeing how he remained in contact hurt me more especially after he would only see people as trophy items. Not trying to defend church but trying to get my point of view across with my declining friendship. As well as just sharing a server where a lot of the chats only had limited access (I was not included in where a lot of the interactions with atom occurred), so many of us have been told lies or just never saw the nasty things Atom has said (aside from public chats visible to everyone)
I hope this makes sense, since I only just woke up and still is hard for me to reply.
I cut off church immediately when the his bulletin was happening (where he was trading) because it was deplorable after me and all his friends expressed discomfort with interacting with Atom. (he promised he cut him off but only to go back for ocs). A lot of the information I knew has been lies, it is only now with the callout account that I am finding out the truth
2 months, 15 days ago Edited 2:14 pm
APOLOGIES I had classes so sorry for this taking a while!
Thank you for the response, I definitely understand your fear and don't want to push you on that regard because I know Atom and such can be... really intense and I believe violent. So I don't blame you, sorry if it sounded like I did, I'm just on edge since this situation has gone on and evolved a lot more than I would've liked, especially since I've been involved with it all.
That's understandable! I know it can be hard with a he said she said situation, so that makes more sense with not wanting to come out at the least now without lack of proof or evidence of the situation at hand. Alongside Church, I definitely understand it is hard, and I am glad you are distancing yourself from him, I know it's pretty tough and hard on yourself.
I'm glad you talked to Church and gave warnings and such as well, I really didn't want to come off accusatory or rude (I'm sorry if I did), I'm sure many can relate with the lack of trust when the whole Church issue came out and who we can and can't trust. I also really didn't consider the fact a lot of these channels may have been only for their eyes, and you were not directly involved or even saw these things.
And it does! Im sorry again if it was anything but like. blunt questions. I know a lot of people are worried and upset, so I thought to ask you yourself. Thank you a bunch for the response and communicating with me.
I wish you well, and I hope you can continue to heal from this all as I know it's rough since you and Church were close.
Thank you again for the response.
2 months, 15 days ago