my bf and i planned to call this weekend to celebrate our 6 month anniversary late (it was 11 days ago and we finally both had free time) but literally an hour after we planned everything he made plans to go on a road trip w other people. he's rly excited and he's been texting me stuff about it but i'm just really upset and i kinda don't even want to talk to him rn. i know it's his family and you should make family time a priority but we had plans and he didn't even apologize and just :/ whatever.
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I'm so lonely :'D can't contact friends at home cause i'm abroad
However I'm glad TH is working! Plus i'll be back by the 1st
Holiday has been fun just got a mountain of work waiting for me back home orz
Even so! I wait to get back into my own bed ^^
No, I don't wanna go
Stop manipulating me into doing, concerts make me so ungodly anxious and nervous, random people jumping around me screaming is gonna give me hell, I don't wanna go
i'm sooooo sad, today was supposed to be a good day but instead I'm just lonely, depressed, and anxious. maybe I should have went out with my mom instead of staying home. at least I got a shower ig
Can I please just die im tired of constantly being put under pressure but no one will let me just die they wont let me end myself they wont let me be free from it all I dont understand why I have to be here to piss everyone off and then not just die to give everyone peace I bet if I was gone the world would be better im tired of this im so so tired of being made to feel the worst I wanna just close my eyes and keep them closed maybe then they will feel happier maybe then no more problems then no more pressure no more.
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I'm probably also emotional because it's five am over here and I'm grumpy. I'll look back on this post and think it's the most stupid thing to rant about when I wake up.
Edit: Woke up, was less pissed.
this is my THIRD round of antibiotics and now i'm on the strongest ones available
it's been a month. can it just go away already? this shit usually disappears after a few days on weak-ass antibiotics but noooo everything involving me has gotta be difficult
i've spent so much money on this hh just let me live
i literally don't know what i did to bring this on? i'm super prone to them so i'm always extra careful but GOD this is the worst one i've ever had :( i guess i'm gonna suffer despite my best efforts huh
Kind of a sensitive topic? Please don't start a discussion with me.
It pisses me off how people mindlessly joke about being diagnosed with game addiction, and also constantly shit on the World Health Organization. Addiction legit comes in many different forms, and just because it's an addiction doesn't mean it's something to joke about.
Man, I love video games, but I'm not a gamer, and I just hate the gamer community sometimes...
I worked my butt off for your commission which you paid $9 for, and you turn around and tell me the way I draw people is vile and grotesque and you hate everything about it, EVEN THOUGH WHEN I DID IT CLEAN AND PRETTY YOU H ATED IT AND YOU SAW THE SKETCHES BEFOREHAND. Why even commission me and make me work for 14 hours (which is, quite literally, less than 10p per hour after fees) if you hate my style? GAAH.
Can delete if not appropriate, but I'm pissed. Like, what? WHO EVEN DOES THIS
You know I thought if I voiced how much I wanted to find a job and how willing I am to get one as well as voice my over all dislike if uni my parents would catch on and stop acting like if I don’t do uni I will never amont to anything and that god will physically manifest infont of me and condemn me....... they literally started listing off everything little thing I’d possibly have to do with this job I’m thinking of trying for and then had the never to say ‘ uni isn’t looking so bad aye ?’....?
It’s like they don’t actually want me to ever finsh school but like they keep nagging me about not having a job...
I hate people who say "lgbtqia++". Intersex is an (outdated and slightly offensive, in my opinion) term for a wide range of medical conditions. being "intersex" is not a sexuality, gender or "identity."
in a lot of cases having an "intersex condition" or disorder of sexual development is both very physically and mentally challenging. it often comes with a lot of health complications, as well as social unacceptance. saying it's akin to sexuality or gender is basically implying it's an "identity" people can choose to opt in/out of.
lgbt activists who try and include it are almost always 1. Not intersex and 2. just trying to use our existence for their own selfish gain, for example to prove there are "more than two sexes". they don't actually care about us at all. if they did they'd respect our repeated request to not include us in the lgbt alphabetti spaghetti.
contrary to popular belief, most intersex people are also not LGBT at all. we really do not belong there and whenever i see "lgbtqia" i see ignorant people who think they have the right to speak over us.