Alright, so I own spiders as my pets. I've always been fascinated by them, and just think they're the prettiest things on Earth. I, however, know that not everyone likes them as much as I do, so I'm not shoving my pets in anyone's face.
However, nearly every time I have a guest or someone who doesn't know I own spiders asks me about my pets, I'm given the "But spiders are so gross! Have you ever tried owning a cat instead?" argument.
Yes, I love common pets. Yes, I love my spiders an equal amount. No, loving spiders doesn't mean I hate other pets and want them to get hurt.
And no, if a tarantula bites you, you will not die.