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A heart’s a heavy burden

Please do not perceive me with your default state of mind, it does not suit me.

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@covered-in-papercuts Yeah, understandable, of course. It makes me very uncomfortable and frustrated when people perceive my gestures toward and relationships with my friends as romantic, even more so when I know they know I’m Aromantic.

Most of my experience involves well meaning people who dont realize that they’re still viewing things through a romantic lens, but it makes me antsy and uncomfortable nonetheless.

More often than not I find myself avoiding being a affectionate person because of this. It’s very frustrating.

oh he's

*lowers voice*

cisgender

not that there's anything wrong with that of course. one of my friends is cisgender

he. well you know. he uses the default settings

he uh. he plays the vanilla game if you catch my drift

Sam Smith saying they're going to be misgendered til the day they die hit in such a deep way as a nonbinary person. It's something so specific to the nonbinary experience specifically. I went on a date with a trans woman recently who looked a little sad when I got misgendered by the waiter and asked "Does that [the misgendering] happen a lot?" And I remember being slightly confused for a minute bc I genuinely hadn't registered the misgendering. I go into public just under the assumption that I'm going to be misgendered even by those with the best intentions.

October 10, 2019Mental Health day.

A very simplified version of a very serious, very complex matter.

#pascalcampion

October can’t come soon enough

IT IS AUGUST

This has been in my likes since last year. It is time.

This is the 21st night of September skeleton. He only appears once a year.

La Sérénade de Lune - triptyque 

Illustrations pour l’exposition ROUGE que nous organisons avec @mathildeloubes à GOBELINS.

Les dates tomberont bientôt !

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Constant Artist/Writer mood

How I feel with every RP

RP partner: (writes fantastic starter with intricate dialog and plot settings)

Me: I have to go I’m too stupid to talk to you

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