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hellspawnmotel

this is a madoka magica x 2001: a space odyssey crossover. I know, I'm a visionary. in this first picture madoka is dressed in the uniform of the Discovery One space shuttle, a simple blue-grey jumpsuit. she is holding an orange helmet under one arm, and with her other hand she is proudly presenting her sketchbook to the viewer, a huge grin on her face. she has drawn this version of the hal 9000 computer, described next. in the second picture is what looks exactly like hal 9000, but if you look very very closely it actually says "homu 9000" and has a purple light in the lens instead of a red one. surrounding that is a light purple, ethereal silhouette, in the shape of homura herself. the computer is placed in the center of her chest and where her face would be is a light pink star.

this one is fully a screenshot redraw, as I love to do. it's of the scene where frank and dave are sitting in a pod discussing whether or not to disconnect the hal 9000. in this version, sayaka is in the place of frank (bad news for her) and is speaking to madoka across from her with a concerned expression. madoka, in the place of dave, is looking down with resignation. behind them you can see the homu 9000 through the window of the pod, staring in at them.

another screenshot redraw. this one is of the scene where dave slowly disconnects hal. here, madoka, in her spacesuit, is visibly sweating as she nervously using a small screwdriver to release various information blocks from the wall. I don't actually know how this works but it's not good for homura. homura (homu 9000) is right beside her, watching helplessly. scattered around the frame are various square-shaped speech bubbles, all homura speaking and pleading for madoka to stop. "I'm afraid. I'm afraid, Madoka. Madoka. My mind is going. I can feel it. I can feel it. My mind is going. There is no question about it. I can feel it. I can feel it. I can feel it. I'm a...........fraid."

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ineffectualdemon

Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)

I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important

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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around

When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry

I had to change that in order to keep those friendships

When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.

So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship

It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.

That's called "living in a society"

People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you

You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises

I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes

There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"

And that's a recipe for disaster

Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do

However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational

We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing

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casuallyhollering

I really think one of the best things we can do as people is just get more comfortable with embarrassment. Yes, it's an unpleasant emotion, but we gotta learn to let it pass over us and move on. The longer I'm alive the more clear it is to me how much harm we do just because we're embarrassed. How many parents punish their kids needlessly and/or super severely just because the parent feels embarrassed by the child's harmless behavior? We have to recognize that being embarrassed does not entitle us to harm others. Alongside this though, we have an obligation to each other to lower the stakes of embarrassment. Offer grace to each other. Stop filming people in public. Stop making fun of harmless cringe.

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rattatooie

casuallyhollering

I really think one of the best things we can do as people is just get more comfortable with embarrassment. Yes, it's an unpleasant emotion, but we gotta learn to let it pass over us and move on. The longer I'm alive the more clear it is to me how much harm we do just because we're embarrassed. How many parents punish their kids needlessly and/or super severely just because the parent feels embarrassed by the child's harmless behavior? We have to recognize that being embarrassed does not entitle us to harm others. Alongside this though, we have an obligation to each other to lower the stakes of embarrassment. Offer grace to each other. Stop filming people in public. Stop making fun of harmless cringe.

yeah