On anon but. I'm someone who has detransitioned. I just want to say that, I was on HRT for about a year. It changed my body in ways that I absolutely love. I have a deep voice, and sharper features, and I have new perspective on my identity and how it interacts with the world. Being trans is a journey. From when I was five up to when I was 17, I fullheartedly believed I was a boy. I was, in that moment. But now, I'm a girl, too. I feel better as a girl - prettier, comfortable. But when I was a boy, I felt good too - in that moment, I was handsome, and I felt so so strong. It's not as scary as it seems. People ebb and flow and change. You can be what you want to be, and if ultimately you want to go back? You can. Just don't discount your experience as a mistake. In the moment it felt right. In the present is what matters.. You'll reflect on it, and maybe you won't ever change. Maybe it'll be what sticks. And that's a lovely thing in and of itself. You will find the you that fits. You will become someone you love by letting yourself express. I promise. Holding back will just mute everything that makes you, you - don't feel like you need to medically transition, either. It was right for me, but research is key, in all things. You'll be beautiful no matter what. Your experiences will shape you - as long as you allow yourself the freedom of expression. I promise.
this is so beautiful. the word detransition does seem to have a negative connotation in certain spaces and im really happy to hear u sharing your positive experience.
its so important to stress that you can simply try it. and if it isnt for you, you can stop.
Eid Mubarak to all of you who are celebrating. I know it’s hard to get in the spirit this year as so many Palestinians spend their Eid starving and in tents but I hope your Eid is full of peace and love. May we see a free Palestine by next Eid.
I’m tired of sdv fandom misinterpreting Clint as a creep and a weirdo when he’s just shy and a sweetheart… fuck it he’s butch lesbian and I’m gonna have a lesbian polycule with him and Emily. Nobody and not even the highest of deities can stop me !!!!!
Currently Watching: the oz kids (critically), wander over yonder (background noise while i crochet) (i like both but for vastly different reasons)
Spicy/Savoury/Sweet: savory or sweet and sour
Relationship Status: zucchini’d babeyyy (in a qpr with prev @/thegroundhogdidit)
Current Obsession: shizuairi (<333 THEY MAKE ME SOOO ARHG), oz analysis/criticism, realizing i do in fact have comfort characters and they’re. hmmm. well they might say some interesting things about me, campy musicals from the 1960s-80s (i just relistened to little shop, rocky horror, and hair yesterday and they’re spinning around in my head), weird keyboard instruments (organs, analog synths, player pianos/carnival organ/percussion rigs, circuitbent stuff)!
Currently Watching: Todd in The Shadows thorough breakdown of James Somerton’s lies.
Spicy/Savory/Sweet: Sweet
Relationship Status: Single and yearning.
Current Obsession: It changes on a daily basis. My focus is like a wheel with Oz, TADC, Welcome Home, Fraggle Rock, and some misc. fifth thing rotating day-in-day-out.
Currently Watching: “The Perversion of Ghislaine Maxwell | The Jeffrey Epstein Saga (Part 3)” by j aubrey on YouTube
Spicy/Savory/Sweet: I mostly eat savory foods in practice, but I like all these flavors.
Relationship Status: Single, maybe not so ready to mingle despite much pining. I think I need more friends first.
Current Obsession: The specific media or topic I’m obsessed with changes all the time, but my obsessions tend to be very gay, feminine, and/or depressing in some way. True crime might be a minor outlier there, I can get really intrigued by that from time to time.
Last Song: All You Had to Do Was Stay (Taylor’s Version) - i was listening to 1989 tv on a walk and that’s what was playing when i returned home
Favorite Color: it depends on shade and context but i am partial to pinks and blues, oh and didn’t taylor say sparkles/glitter was her favorite color? that. glittery sparkly rainbows!
Currently Watching: The Bear (finally!)
Spicy/Savory/Sweet: a little spice is nice but i can’t handle too much heat! i don’t eat sugar but i sometimes crave things that are subtly sweet like cinnamon and oatmeal and nut milks and root veggies - once i cut out sugar, i can taste more subtle flavors in things like vegetables and grains! and savory, yes. always lol
Last Song: Haunted (Taylor’s Version) I’m in a bit of an angsty mood.
Favorite Color: I like deeper shades of green. Emerald, forest green, olive, etc.
Currently Watching: Supergirl (with my little sister) & Feud: Capote vs. The Swans (with my mom and my older sister). Debating on whether I should rewatch The Good Place
Spicy/Savory/Sweet: Savory. It usually has complex flavors that just make life worth living. I like spicy things quite often but sometimes I’m just not in the mood. I don’t really actually like sweet things. My desserts are usually richer with chocolate that isn’t too sweet.
Relationship Status: Single as a pringle except not really because ya know ya get more than one pringle in a pack? I'mma stop now lol.
Current Obsession: Bishova which for anyone that doesn’t know is the ship name for Kate Bishop and Yelena Belova from the Marvel Hawkeye series. I can’t get enough fanfics about them. Taylor is always just a simmering obsession. Also Renee Rapp right now. I’ve gotten hooked.
Currently watching: hazbin hotel, wild kratts, this strange planet, justice League: the animated series, star trek tos
Spicy/savoury/sweet: savoury
Relationship status: single and happy
My current obsession: hazbin hotel, helluva boss, justice league, batfam, dead plate (haven’t played yet), Nimona (I think I’m still obsessed with it), caravan palace (newest drops), cool clothes and home decor
Last Song: rewrite the stars from the greatest showman, well technically tightrope but it was only on like two seconds but I was turning off my mp3 player
Favourite colour: dark green, blue and purple
Currently watching: oof, uh rewatching some episodes of she-ra and I want to watch gravity falls next
Spicy/Savoury/Sweet: depends on the day, today probably savory
Relationship status: Single, of course
Current Obsession: Hazbin hotel, Stolitz, Wolfstar, TOH, and still TTS. I have too many obsessions.
Currently watching: okay more like rewatching but Madoka Magica and Zombie Land Saga. I miss both series and I know movies are in the work WHERE ARE THEY
Spicy/Savory/Sweet: in order from what I crave most to least it’s Savory/Spicy/Sweet
Last song: folie à deux by STOMACH BOOK (on loop rn)
Favourite Colour: Teal and purple gang forever
Currently Watching: (last watched) Dungeon Meshi
Spicy/Savory/Sweet: Spicy all the way I love the pain
Current obsession: my ocs, analog horror or internet mysteries and the world of nature🌹🌺 🌿
I’d tag but I don’t know how many of my mutuals would mind being tagged in posts like these </3 regardless I would love to get to know all of my mutuals, hiii 👋
