Are they genderfluid between female and neutral or agender? They could be "genderflux" if you find that suits them better! Definitions vary depending on who you ask (and most people defining it I've found aren't genderflux themselves but I am) but the general definition is just "varies in gender intensity" like for me, I am primarily agender but my gender fluctuates to be more or less feminine. Like starting with an empty jar and sometimes it has a little bit of sand in it and sometimes it's half full of sand or anything in between. For neutral it could be that you start with a jar filled with two different color sands, and sometimes they're an even mix so the gender is ambiguous, but sometimes one of the colors is more prominent.
Even if this doesn't suit Oli at all, maybe it will help with someone else!
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