just lyk this creator does have in the tos that if she makes a character with a clear gender, racial, or sexual identity that should be not change. I know tos aren't law but it would probably be best to try and follow them.

Hey there! Thank you so much for letting me know. I know Dainties allow for such changes, but I will def reach out to the creator and double check. I can totally keep her Lesbians as it won't change much just a few backstory elements and it will help me understand. 

Again, thank you so much for letting me know. 

Hey there! Thank you again for letting me know. Talked with the designer and it all good now. Again, thank you so much