Black List

Black List - This post is not meant to encourage hate, harassment, or attacks of any kind. I DO NOT CONDONE ANY OR ANYTHING CLOSE TO THAT BEHAVIOUR. Please do not send anyone on this list messages, threats, or any type of negativity or harassment. The purpose of this list is simply to share my own personal experiences with certain people and how they have treated me. I want to be honest and transparent about what happened, so that others can read it and form their own opinion on the situation and people involved, including me.
Number of people on the list: 0

  I generally don't share private DMs screenshots, but If I feel it’s necessary, I will. My goal is simply to show exactly what happened as clearly as possible, so there’s no confusion or misunderstandings.

  I don't make ANY black list additions lightheartedly and ONLY do it if I feel like I have no other choice. I will ALWAYS give reasons to why someone is up here and explain the situation as good as I can. 

   I HATE ghosting and have personal issues with it. However, it is not always a good enough reason to black list someone. Not everyone who ever ghosted me is on this list. But I find ghosting clients that already payed is unacceptable.

   If you are on this list and are too scared to approach me again to try and settle things, or feel like I was in the wrong with what I’ve written here. Please don’t be. And do not hesitate to DM me privately or comment here, or anywhere else publicly to talk about it. I am always open to talk, like adults. Calmly and respectful of each other. I hate drama, I hate conflict. I’d love to live in a perfect world where we all can be friends but we don’t. 

   Depending on what happened and how things developed in between me and the people here, I will make edits, updates or remove people if things got cleared out. However, on more serious circumstances, even if something got resolved in between us, or got removed from this list. I will still hold the post about that someone up, or re-add them if they have done something again. With an addition of an update explaining everything, because people need to be hold accountable on the more serious things they have done.

   I strongly believe in giving second chances and I stand by it. But I am VERY strict and take it VERY serious when that second chance is taken advantage of. We can ALWAYS  talk, figure things out and I want to get  in a place where all sides ar happy as long as all of us are respectful of each other. 

   Thank you for taking the time to read all of this.