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bandmate - I think that he's a good guy trying hard to be the best person he can be, but he should be more open about being wrong sometimes. I guess that'd be hard for him, all things considered.
bandmate - I appreciate Sage's rationality when it comes to decisions. I know that I'm pigheaded and don't always accept when I'm wrong, so it can take a lot to admit it. Trying to work on it, so Sage doesn't have to waste time convincing me of simple facts.
bandmate - He had these high standards for himself. Don't get me wrong! Standards are good, but sometimes I wonder if they're too much for him. Max always says something positive to the rest of the band, so I hope he knows that there are plenty of great things we can say about him! Like, his clever thinking got us through a difficult time when we had no water or electricity.
bandmate - Cherry's cheerfulness is quite contagious; she always manages to brighten up someone's day! She can also make snap decisions when we need them done. It's not always needed, but not all choices need to be made with deliberation.
bandmate - I wish Max didn't feel like he has to be perfect every single time, especially if it's the band's first time practicing something new. He can be such a sweet guy to us, and he should apply that to himself.
bandmate - I can tell that Ailbhe cares about all of us in LightCandy. They always leave us notes with affirmations on them and always offer to console us when something upsetting happens. They also have a clear passion for the band, but I know that sometimes they have a hard time practicing. Their "not trying" seems like a bigger problem than just apathy or laziness, despite what Sage says, but I think Ailbhe internalizes Sage's words.
bandmate - While Sage often overthink things, I realize we need someone like them in the band. Sometimes they correct me if I'm wrong, and it's helpful to have their advice when making an important decision.
bandmate - She acts often without thinking while I think sometimes to the point of not acting at all. In that way, we're complete opposites. At first, it was annoying. Okay, Cherry's impulsiveness is still annoying. However, her cheerfulness won me over, and I can now at least consider her a friend.
bandmate - Sage is really smart and can use that intelligence well! They sometimes tell me I could be like them if I just "try harder". It feels very hard mentally to do things sometimes, even if I like those things! But maybe Sage is right, and I'm making excuses. From now on, I'll try harder for the sake of everyone in LightCandy because they are all worth it!
bandmate - Ailbhe can be a very fun person to be around! I just have to make sure they don't get into too much trouble and be quieter when talking to others. But I guess they're trying to help me be open to new experiences, which is important if we tour worldwide.
bandmate - I know that not everyone likes it, but I find Ailbhe's hyperactivity to bring some interest on boring days. They could be a bit quieter and try harder, but they're still one of my best friends.
bandmate - Cherry is a great friend! She always helps the band, and me on a personal level, make choices. I guess she can be too quick, but it's not like thinking things through was a strength of mine either. And her happy attitude always makes me feel a bit better too!
boyfriend - Chance has helped me in more ways than I think he could even imagine, and I'm grateful he was willing to become my friend when no one else was. I do worry about Chance getting burned out or not being able to stand up for himself, but I can see some improvements in both of those areas since he's gone to therapy. I just want the best for both of us.
boyfriend - I know that I can be too much for people, but I'm glad I met Mateo. We may not share everything in common, but he has recommended a couple of cool books that I still reread on occasion. His writing can also be quite good; I think he could be an author. But outside of writing, Mateo helps me to see another perspective and not constantly berate myself for mistakes (thankfully in a different way from the way he makes jokes because I don't get most of them). I'm glad to see his more emotional and passionate side too because I like the person he is, and it probably tires him to hide that.