Alright I'm hoping to close all my accounts on here pretty soon so here's the deal:

I get it life stuff happens, been there myself many times but I will not wait 3 months+ of radio silence just to get  "I'm not interested anymore" so from now on if you take more than a month to do art without any communication the trade is null and void and the ocs are put back for offers. No warnings No exceptions.  etc I will not be sending any more reminders.