RP Comfort Meme

Posted 5 years, 1 month ago by Jovian
About Me

Age 30s
Activity Active
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Other Notes
  • I prefer to RP with other adults.  Interacting this intimately with minors is uncomfortable for me, sorry!
  • My timezone is EST, but if one of us has to go to bed or something I don't mind waiting until we're all awake again.
  • I work weekdays till around 5 PM.
  • There are a few tabletop games I regularly participate in, so I might not be available every evening.
RP Location

Comments 
Chats 
Notes 
Forum 
Skype 
Google Docs 
Other 

Other Notes
  • I prefer Discord most of all, just let me know if you're adding me since I might assume you're a stranger!!  My handle is Jovian#2112.
  • For others, it really depends on the site.  The more IRC- or forum-like, the better.  It's simply what I'm used to.
Participants

One on One 
Up to 3 
Up to 4 
5+ 
As Big as Possible 

Other Notes
  • In general, the bigger the group, the more organized I'd want it to be.  I'd especially prefer it if big groups have forums or other ways to organize specific roleplay segments, so that smaller RPs can grow and have their own threads.
  • I am also a little more comfortable with minors in a large group setting as long as there's other adults too, but I'd probably still avoid you for one-on-one situations, SORRY
Post Type

Script Style 
Head Cannon 
Paragraph 
Novel 

1 or 2 Sentences 
1 or 2 Paragraphs 
2 to 5 Paragraphs 
5+ Paragraphs 
A few pages worth 

Other Notes
  • Okay this may be my old showing but wtf does "head cannon" mean with regard to post type?  Headcanons for characters?  That's not a way people post?? HELP??
  • I have super mega ADHD so short and snappy is the way I both prefer to read and write.
  • I will try to match your length as much as possible but I get exhausted writing paragraphs.  If you regularly RP with a small essay I am not the one you seek.
  • There's only so much I care to describe about a single location, or a character's appearance, before feeling like I've said everything I can.
  • My most comfortable way to RP would be script style for dialog (especially if multiple characters of mine are involved, that shit gets confusing, man), but scenery and longer actions can still be described with some sentences.
  • I especially prefer the above for a hectic Discord/IRC setting, but for forums I am fine with paragraphs.  Just don't expect terribly long ones, especially if our characters are just chatting and doing little else.  I like leaving room for the other character to respond, which is probably also why script appeals to me!
Preferred Character Types

Male 
Female 
Non-binary 
Other 
Don't care 

Cis 
Trans 
Other 
Don't care 

Human 
Humanoid 
Anthro 
Feral 
Original species 
Other 

Other Notes
  • I'm nonbinary and turbo gay.  My characters are varied all over the place similarly, and I'd like it if yours were too!
  • Most of my characters are human or humanoid.  I will RP with anthros and similar-looking original species, but not if I'm also expected to be an anthro.  We can just say anthros and humans coexist together or something it's fine
  • Ferals are a different beast, since it seems a little strange for my mostly human-looking OCs to be chatting up a cat, so I'm going to have to say no.  Sorry, feral fans.
  • There's a small possibility I might make a brand new OC for an RP setting (especially if it's a CS or something), but in terms of using my preexisting OCs here on TH, the above applies.
RP Types

Action / Adventure 
Horror / Mystery 
Slice of life / Casual 
AUs 
Canonical Universes 
Other 

Other Notes
  • I like fun adventures and day-to-day activities.  I have a goofy sense of humor and don't like it if things are 100% serious all the time.  Humor is a good way to decompress from the serious.
  • I do still like drama though, but it really depends on what the drama is.  I have a weak stomach, so any horror-type things can't be super gory with me, especially if you get descriptive.  A vampire or ten is fine though.
  • For canon or AUs, it really comes down to what it is.  If I'm RPing with a fancharacter in an established universe, I'd prefer it if you were a fancharacter too.  I don't really like the idea of interacting with established characters.
Shipping

Never 
Must be planned in advance 
Characters must know each other 
Depends on the character & situation 

Exclusive Relationships 
AU relationships with others 

Other Notes
  • I'd like to get to know you and your OC first before I commit to shipping one of my characters with yours.
  • Relationship exclusivity depends on the characters.  A couple of my OCs have relationships with close friends' OCs that I'm obsessed with to the point where it feels weird to ship them with anyone else, but they're exceptions, not the rule.
  • As long as you ask, I'll be sure to let you know what I'm comfortable with for my OC, and what kinds of characters would ship well with them!
Relationship Speed

Immediately 
Fast 
Average 
Slow and steady 
Molasses, I want to suffer 
Depends on the characters 

Other Notes
  • I'm okay with some fast-mode goofiness, but I'd prefer it if things felt natural.  How fast or slow something happens also depends on the characters involved...some of them just can't spit it out, you know?
Smut

Never 
Skip the act 
Write build up, skip act 
Only write the act if it's good 
Write the act always 

Other Notes
  • Uhhh I'm asexual and on the sex-averse side, so I'd prefer to skip any naughty scenes.  Totally fine with implying the act though, my OCs are allowed to have have sex drives separate from my own.
  • Foreplay is fine, as well as discussing what we want out of a scene in advance, but as soon as it gets erotic I'd prefer a fade to black.
  • However, the less I know you the less comfortable I will be with these types of scenes in general.  You should not RP with me expecting to get smut out of it.  (I don't know why you'd be seeking smut from a sex-averse asexual anyway??)
Romantic Artwork

Post what I'm comfortable with 
Post but don't show me 
Don't ever post w/o consulting 
Don't care 

Hugs or Cuddles 
Kisses 
NSFW 
Sexual Acts 

Other Notes
  • You can draw art of my OCs in a vacuum, but if there's any specific potentially touchy subject matter involved such as romance or violence, please consult with me before you start drawing it.
  • Please don't draw anything NSFW of my OCs in general, I don't want it and will not budge on this.  Please respect my boundaries.
Violence

No violence at all 
Discuss it with me first 
Don't care 

Verbal arguments 
Mild (Papercut, Elbow to the face...) 
Normal (Stabbing, Fist fight...) 
Extreme (Torture...) 

Other Notes
  • Violence really depends on what it is.  I'm fine with fight scenes, blood is fine, but gore to the point of entrails kinda freaks me out.
  • Something brutal can happen to a character (like dismemberment or something) but I would like any gross details to be glossed over.
  • I can put it like this: injuries and characters being injured is fine.  The actual act of the injury (and how much we get into it) would have to be discussed beforehand.
  • However I am absolutely down for any hurt/comfort that may come from something like this ;) ;) ;) that's the stuff
  • This isn't really a specific square here, but I'd also like to state I'd feel heavily uncomfortable RPing violence against a minority.  I understand some characters are created specifically to be assholes for you to hate, but using this as a way to make your OC say slurs because it's IC for them, or something, is a huge No from me.
Psychological Problems

Neurotypical only 
Discuss it with me first 
Don't care 

Depression or other similar problems 
Extreme personality problems, PTSD, etc. 
Other 

Other Notes
  • Being mentally disordered, I love seeing it in OCs, and also have plenty of neurodivergent OCs myself, but I only like RPing it if it's handled with maturity.
  • Thus I would prefer this kind of RP in a one-on-one setting once I've gotten to know you, where I can safely tell you've researched it or lived it.  Hurt/comfort in these contexts is very delicious to me as well!!
  • For a group setting, I'm comfortable with fairly common conditions most folks seem to be aware of (things like depression, ADHD, etc.), but would be nervous about seeing a stranger playing an OC with a more disruptive, commonly misunderstood disorder (as well as others' reactions to it, in canon and out).  I would have to really trust the whole group with a character like this.
  • For example, if you use "crazy" or "psychopathic" to actually describe a disordered person, and think something like schizophrenia makes an OC kill people because their """other personality""" did it, please don't RP with me.  Actually don't even talk to me.
  • Violence against minorities is a little more tolerated with me if it's backstory trauma for a character, but I wouldn't want to get into too many details.  Again, this can't be an excuse to say slurs, lmfao.
Dramatic / Violent Artwork

Post what I'm comfortable with 
Post but don't show me 
Don't ever post w/o consulting 
Don't care 

Mental stress or self harm 
Mild depictions (scrapes, bruises...) 
Average depiction (open wounds...) 
Extreme depictions (dismemberment, torture...) 

Other Notes
  • Like I said before, blood is OK with me, but once you veer into gore territory I get uncomfortable.  Just ask first.
  • Mental stress is fine (honestly I draw it all the time anyway), but I am against depictions of self-harm if it's romanticized.
  • Generally, if I won't RP something, I won't want art of it either.

Base Meme by ElfSama | Edited & Coded by Vom

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