Its time for that quarterly bulletin repost about seeking out OC relationships and the like! I have a lot of OCs that just kind of sit, and the best way for me to show my love to these characters is to talk about them with others. This bulletin is gonna be a little more involved, though, since things have been a bit awkward in the past and I want to be as transparent and direct as possible to avoid that this time! So please make sure you read everything before commenting or contacting me :)
Disclaimer: Ships are not guaranteed!
It may sound mean, but just by way of contacting me does not guarantee that we will end up pairing our characters together! Some people make this assumption, which puts me in an uncomfortable position. Please keep in mind that we will discuss the options, but if none of our characters seem to mesh well together, or we as people just don't seem to be on the same page (which is fine!), things aren't going to work out. I will let you know to the best of my ability that I don't think our characters are the best match, but if you continue to insist or push, I will, frankly, probably just stop communicating with you because I'm shy and that gets real uncomfortable. So yes, please keep this in mind and be prepared for that possibility!
And of course, if when we're chatting about possibilities you decide our characters aren't a good fit, you are more than welcome, and encouraged, to let me know as well!
Regarding RP and Art
I haven't really RPed legitimately in a few years, due to lack of time, lack of motivation, etc. This doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't be up for short scenes or what have you, but please don't contact me going on the assumption that we're going to RP! Its something we can discuss, of course, and I'll let you know if I'm up for it or not. As for art...as is true of 99% of artists, nothing is guaranteed! I may draw our characters if we end up establishing something between them, I may not. I am at the whim of my own motivation, so please don't pursue ships with the hope of getting free art of your OCs. That's just tacky 8')
Sexy Talk
Full disclosure, I'm an asexual person who has little interest in sexual things irl or discussing the sexual lifestyles of others irl. Don't do that. That said, when it comes to fictional characters, I draw a lot of smut, and I'm open to a lot of things. So don't feel shy about talking to me about sexual headcanons and the like if we end up establishing something between characters! My big hard no themes are underage characters and racism/sexualized racism stuff, and the sexualization of trans/NB bodies. Beyond that, the worst thing that'll happen is I'll politely let you know whatever theme/kink you've mentioned isn't my cup of tea. Otherwise, bring on the smutty talk.
Things I'm not interested in
- People under 18. I'm old, and this would feel weird and uncomfortable otherwise.
- Again, underage characters (in mind and/or body), racism, sexualized racism/transphobia
- Dysphoria means dick on vag makes me really uncomfortable, so I tend to stick to male/male or female/female couples, or more broadly, dick/dick or vag/vag characters, whatever their genders are...
- Super chibified, dollmaker, stylized anime art--these aren't really my style, nor do they inspire much interest in me, honestly.
- Animals, furries, particularly furry characters--like 'aliens' that just look like furries, or dragons that just look like scalies. Nothing against them, of course! Just not really what I'm looking for.
- Macro/micro characters, macro dick...I guess I should've added this to kink nos but, sorry, I just can't envision these things realistically in my head, so its gotta be a no from me. Characters that can shift their sizes are okay, though, within reason (I'm not interested in any planet sized dicks, sorry).
- Pure bottoms or super subby guys. This is just residual trauma from my post-yaoi years, but I'm not interested in characters that are basically walking 'uke' stereotypes, or those looking to bend over for dick all the time. It gets boring, as someone who quite likes drawing or thinking about my characters getting dicked...
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