thiefed from. a whole bunch of people technically idk who made the original though

names

wander's the obvious one + the one i've been going by for over a year now but a while ago i decided to start going by fen as well! i have absolutely no preference over which one you use - i like both equally (though i guess i'm still getting a feel for fen it's going slowly since most ppl are used to calling me wander)

also i did used to go by shadow in my very earliest da days ONLY starii's allowed to call me that

can we be friends?

not by just asking that you can't! social skills are not my strong suit so i'm not always very sure if i'm actually friends with someone or if we're just mutuals etc etc but i try not to bite and if we interact enough times/know each other then feel free to consider me one !

linking OCs

honestly i'd say go for it! some characters do have their own little stories n stuff where links to others' ocs wouldn't work but idm links for most of the others! obviously don't ask to just link 2 random ocs together but if they've got a connection like both being sonas or musicians or whatever then i'm chill with that :]

<3/Ily/ilysm

i am an avid user of the "<3" emoticon (+ variations of it) and don't mind it used around me! i never really use "ily/ilysm" but don't rlly mind being told that - just know that i probably won't say the same thing back

also!! if you do decide to use those then no need to put tone tags like /p - i will ALWAYS interpret it as platonic (even if it's not meant to be for whatever reason)

can we make a story together?

probably not tbh unless we know each other pretty well,,,, i prefer to do that sort of stuff on my own + don't really have stories as much as little headworlds/groups of characters that could be part of a story if they actually had any sort of plot going for them

do you take requests?

i do not! i might do some on my own terms but that would probably be in a discord server with people i know so don't bother asking

venting/can i vent to you?

i mean if you want i guess?? only if we know each other i'm not gonna listen to a random stranger tell me about their problems i'm sorry

also i'm terrible at comforting ppl and stuff so i'm probably not the best person to go to - so this is essentially a no

can i be added to your auth lists?

don't have any at the moment!

nicknames/gendered terms?

as far as nicknames go i'd prefer you stick to the names i go by listed above unless you're a friend/someone i know/etc then feel free to give me silly little nicknames! love that

as far as gendered terms go i'm chill with any

a note!! i use masculine terms like "dude" pretty much all the time - lmk if you're uncomfy with that!

can you tell me about [drama] or what's happened to [person] or why is [person] blocked?

i make it a point not to engage in drama so i don't really have information on that + my reasons for blocking ppl are none of your business <3

why are [people] on your blacklist/greylist?

don't actually have one at the moment so can't really answer that one