wow! that's amazing, I'm glad you wrote this and apologized for leaving that comment ;o;  not everyone would've. 

i won't go into more discussion bc it seems like it might hurt you, and you've suffered enough (and I'm so sorry for what has happened in your life, genuinely, i hope the rest of your life plays out incredibly well), but yeah, you came to the right conclusions. after all, and however sucky it must feel, those are your feelings, and for the good of you, the best thing in such circumstances is to block the tags/words (if applicable), block the user and move on to positive things, things that bring you joy. 

I'm truly sorry for your traumas, nobody should've gone through that. but everyone's experiences are different, and what brings you joy, might bring me pain, and same goes in the other direction. 

have a good day :) 

/gen /not mad