tysm!! And yeah I do apologize for you being in the middle of it jghfh- it really sucks our group fell apart like that, but yeah, I wasn’t very emotionally mature.
Arch and I are still joking about the fact we were left behind and were like " wtf just happened 🧍♀️"
I'm still kinda sad that I never saw any signs before everything fell apart- I never saw a reason to block you personally but since you just disappeared and never really went for contact after a while I just u know, never tried to? Especially since I'm still friend with him nowadays and for the past years too-
Can't say I was perfect too back then, I might has been one of the oldest but I was still struggling with putting my foot down about my boundaries and just what I was saying could affect others (I'm still struggling with apathy and dealing with emotions but I'm trying to learn that) and in result I got blocked by 3 ppl
Ahh yeah I remember your bluntness kinda put me off from you,, but now i get you don’t really mean any offense (esp since i struggle with apathy too i just mask it more)
And yeah I was a mess after it all happened and left the server to avoid contact with them akgjwk- and ig we just didn’t have any reasons to talk much outside of it so ig that’s we drifted (since I suck with keeping contact with ppl outside of discord servers/gc’s, one on one is difficult) and i mass unfollowed a bunch of ppl bc TH/DA notifs were killing me so thats why I unfollowed incase u were curious.
mhmh none taken, especially that english isn't my first language and sometimes my wording isn't the best and didn't knew about tone tags so it wasn't helping. but i never knew i was giving bluntness vibes, i apologize for that!
Yeah i can't blame you, if something like that would happen to me, i wouldn't want to communicate with anyone for a while too. and man me too im so bad at keeping contact with anyone it's a miracle i still have a friend who talk to me outside of gc
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tysm!! And yeah I do apologize for you being in the middle of it jghfh- it really sucks our group fell apart like that, but yeah, I wasn’t very emotionally mature.
18 days, 3 hours ago
Arch and I are still joking about the fact we were left behind and were like " wtf just happened 🧍♀️"
I'm still kinda sad that I never saw any signs before everything fell apart- I never saw a reason to block you personally but since you just disappeared and never really went for contact after a while I just u know, never tried to? Especially since I'm still friend with him nowadays and for the past years too-
Can't say I was perfect too back then, I might has been one of the oldest but I was still struggling with putting my foot down about my boundaries and just what I was saying could affect others (I'm still struggling with apathy and dealing with emotions but I'm trying to learn that) and in result I got blocked by 3 ppl
17 days, 19 hours ago
Ahh yeah I remember your bluntness kinda put me off from you,, but now i get you don’t really mean any offense (esp since i struggle with apathy too i just mask it more)
And yeah I was a mess after it all happened and left the server to avoid contact with them akgjwk- and ig we just didn’t have any reasons to talk much outside of it so ig that’s we drifted (since I suck with keeping contact with ppl outside of discord servers/gc’s, one on one is difficult) and i mass unfollowed a bunch of ppl bc TH/DA notifs were killing me so thats why I unfollowed incase u were curious.
17 days, 11 hours ago
mhmh none taken, especially that english isn't my first language and sometimes my wording isn't the best and didn't knew about tone tags so it wasn't helping. but i never knew i was giving bluntness vibes, i apologize for that!
Yeah i can't blame you, if something like that would happen to me, i wouldn't want to communicate with anyone for a while too. and man me too im so bad at keeping contact with anyone it's a miracle i still have a friend who talk to me outside of gc
17 days, 8 hours ago
Nws!! And yeah its annoying when you can’t even notice your own behavior ajhda
And god yeah, im happy you’re doing ok tho!
17 days, 5 hours ago