Aspen

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aSPEN

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Name Aspen
Birthday20.04.1995
Gendernonbinary (he/they)
Height 177cm
Characteristicstatoos, wears lots of green
Weight 66kg
Orientation pansexual
Occupation tattoo artist
Nationality Hungarian


Relationship status taken
Design Notes
  • Any green pieces of clothing/accessories will work
  • Bonus points if they're frog-themed, too
  • Piercing: tunnels and upper lobes on both ears, additional helix on left ear
  • Lots of tattoos; see the ref sheet
Personality

Aspen is a jokester and a memelord who likes to make people laugh. They never miss an opportunity to throw a joke or comment something in a weird or overly specific way. They are very friendly and seek contact with people, especially if he finds them nice, cool or unique.

He often hides his emotions behind a smile as they don't want anyone to worry about them, but when his mind becomes unbearable he tends to seek some closure from their boyfriend or best friends. He may seem as if he doesn't care about anything, but deep down he cares way too much and worries about ridiculous things. 

Trivia
  • Deals with depression and anxiety, has to take meds every day and ocassionally when panic attacks occur
  • Lived in an orphanage from the age of 16
  • They LOVE frogs and everything green
  • Their favourite game is Overwatch, they main Bastion
  • They are a professional player, he participates in Contenders - their team is named Queer Coded
  • Fluent in English and knows some bits of other European languages
  • Does free tattoos for self-harm survivors and covers their scars
  • Has got some OCs he loves to draw
  • Allergic to cats
Interests
Hobbies
Drawing, tattoos, video games
Likes
Frogs, green color, ramen, doing laundry, long showers, eating ketchup straight from little packets
Dislikes
Cooking, cleaning, washing dishes
History

Aspen never really learned how it is to be loved by your family. His parents never expressed that they love him or he is wanted there, only provided the necessities they had to provide - shelter, food, anything he needed. Their parents never showed up for mom/father's day celebrations at school, nor saw him graduating every class. He was just left alone, and he truly envied other children that got to experience parents love. Though, at least they didn't put him into more abuse and just accepted he is now a part of the household. Later on he realised that he was an unwanted child and it became clear to Aspen as of why they acted that way.

Around the age of 13 they realised they don't really feel like a boy, but also don't feel like a girl either. It was a long and difficult search as internet didn't provide much resources about the issue back then, but eventually they stumbled upon the 'nonbinary' term. Having some hope that their parents will listen for once and try to understand, he tried to talk to them when he was almost 16 years old. Aspen predicted lots of different scenarious on how that conversation might end up being like, but he definitely didn't predict the fact that he was literally threw away from home. He was given an hour to pack.

He spent the next years in a local orphanage, struggling to accept his new life. They helped take care of younger children most of the time with some older residents, and after a few weeks he befriended one of them - Damian. Damian quickly became his best friend and somebody he could rely on and tell everything to. Aspen really enjoyed his company and was thankful that at least one person wants to put up with him, after so many years with no closure from anyone.

Aspen developed depression and anxiety during his child days and it was left untreated for years. He got his first appointment set up by a guardian at an orphanage who was very concerned about his state. Luckily somebody treated them seriously and Aspen got a much needed help, which he still gets to this day. His state is slowly improving and meds they were prescribed are working. One of the things he really indulged in during his life was art, which also helped alongside of the meds and therapy. It was their way to unwind and express their emotions, or just let their imagination flow.

Once he finished high school, he moved out to Budapest to study art. He finished with honours and decided to spend all his scholarships for a trip around the Europe. On his way he met lots of amazing people and learned around various tattoo artists. They mostly just enjoyed life at this time, not having a permanent place to stay in nor somebody he could come back to. After a few years though he decided to come back to Hungary and moved into Budapest for good, renewing his friendship with Damian and renting a room in the city center. Aspen managed to join a small tattoo studio and do some charity work for self-harm survivors by offering them free tattoos to cover the scars. They are quite popular around Hungary for that.

Aspen met Thando, his boyfriend, during one of the tattoo sessions. They immediately clicked together and ended up making out at the back of the studio, when no one else was around. Later on, due to some housing problems, Thando moved in to the flat Aspen was renting a room in, with his help. After a longer while they got together. He still has some problems expressing their emotions or let Thando know in what state he currently is in, but they both are working on that. His boyfriend is very supportive and never fails to cheer them up, and vice versa. The only obstacle is that Thando is an international exchange student and comes from France. Aspen is afraid that their relationship will not survive long distance and meeting only once every few months, but will do everything to make it work.

Relationships
THANDO

Boyfriend

DAMIAN

Best friend

VLAD, RAFAEL

Friends

ARMIN, ALPHA, CYAN, SEBASTIAN, VILLIAM

Group of friends they play games with

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