Havari Nixia (Pockets Georg)

Closed species OC part of the Strixia world owned by https://toyhou.se/Gothamed

Species - Hypnoid

Name - Havari Nixia (pronounced "hah-var-ee" "nih-xsee-ah")

Nicknames - Pockets Georg

Gender - agender (he/she/they)

Sexuality - asexual, panromantic (no preference)

Age - 30

Height - 6'6

Bio

Havari was born to loving parents and is the youngest of two. He was always a bit on the bigger side compared to his brother but his parents didn't think much of it. As he grew up he would end up being a bit impulsive which he carried with him into adulthood. He had trouble sitting still and just loved to talk his head off. His parents thought it was a bit different than his brother but didn't think much of it either. They loved him all the same as his older brother Lysander. At least, until the two started school. Havari would struggle paying attention in class and thus struggled on his assignments. His parents knew he wasn't stupid but just couldn't wrap their heads around why he was doing so poorly. At first they would spend more time with him to help him out with his school work. At least until Lysander started winning awards for his academic excellence...

His parents were so enthralled in Lysander's academic prowess that they began to neglect their other son. They would still take care of him of course but their attention seemed drawn to his older sibling. He was always getting praised for doing so well and would often get various treats like ice cream or new toys. Meanwhile, Havari would end up the butt of the joke always being told he should try harder and why couldn't he be more like his brother. Over time this would really start to get to him. He would get scolded for being negative all the time and thus would force himself to be positive and hide his emotions. In fact he would rarely cry even when he would get hurt.

He would cry one day though... When he was playing with some action figures with his brother Lysander would end up playing a bit too roughly and ended up breaking the action figure Havari held. He also got a small scrape in the process but he was more upset about the toy being broken than anything since it wasn't often he got new toys. He already had an inferiority complex but this was the last straw and he would end up hating his brother for a short period. However, Lysander would feel horrible about breaking the toy and ultimately asked to buy him a new one and surprised him with it a couple of days later when it arrived in the mail. They would immediately make up and became really close for siblings. Havari would act as a sort of protection for Lysander, being the bigger child and all, and Lysander would ultimately start helping him with his school work.

He would still struggle but he was starting to do better in school due to Lysander's help. His parents would get off his back but would still be focusing on and praising his brother more for doing so well and helping his brother so much. Havari would end up acting out in school a lot a couple of years into grade school and ended up sort of a "class clown" type because all he wanted was to make people smile since he didn't feel capable of doing that for his parents. He would end up getting into lots of trouble at school and thus was scolded or punished for it at home. This behavior continued all of the way through high school. Even though he would get reprimanded it was the one habit he couldn't break. He would occasionally act out at home as well when ended him the rowdy child title.

Lysander would end up getting a scholarship into a local college meanwhile Havari ended up out of school and unemployed. He did end up trying to get a couple of jobs but would ultimately be let go due to his inability to finish tasks in an efficient manner. During all of this though, he did end up meeting his first and only girlfriend, Kimberly. He was infatuated with her and loved to make her various crafts like bracelets and little sculptures. Yet, all she seemed to care about was his looks. On one of their dates Kimberly would end up winning a small silly keychain and finding it cheap would hand it to Havari who figured it was a heartfelt gift cherished it and continued to keep it even after their breakup. He struggled to really buy her much of anything though due to well... being unemployed. He would still borrow money time and time again from Lysander and tried to take her out to places and buy her things but it was all frivolous to her. Really the only gift she genuinely liked was a giant plush toy that Havari won at the local carnival in a test-of-strength booth. Ultimately she would end up getting sick of him and cheated on him with a girl. He didn't find out immediately but was devastated when he found out. They ended up having a huge fight would resulted in Havari actually feeling guilty for what happened but the relationship was done for no matter how hard he tried to get her back.

Havari would end up getting into the gym life at an early age and he used it to distract himself from his thoughts. He also loved getting into various crafts over the years and ended up giving things left and right to his friends and Lysander. He would even go to make little crafts for Lysander's classes from time to time as Lysander ended up becoming a teacher after getting his masters degree. He'd even go to sell some of his work here and there but it was mostly little things and little money as he would typically switch to a new craft before he could really get anywhere with the first one. Even still, Lysander supported his brother and all his silly little crafts. Even now he still lives with his brother and yes... is still unemployed.

UPDATE
Havari ended up getting a new job at a local daycare after volunteering there for a while. He loves his new job and has decided to share his love of crafting with his students and the rest of the staff. He's also landed a couple new friends and a polycule of boyfriends and girlfriends who are encouraging him to go back to college even if he hasn't started yet.

- Havari's breakup song from Kimberly: https://youtu.be/WADHHW0_RPU

- VC: Markiplier: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U84jV6n01so

- He's worked mostly retail jobs (about 5 of them 2 of which he quit a month in)

- he has adhd (undiagnosed/unmedicated)

- FC: Rain Dove

- he tries his best not to think so he ends up being impulsive and saying/doing everything he thinks

- he's purposefully chaotic due to his childhood "class clown" days even if it's not socially acceptable anymore

- he gets haircuts from his brother

- he's actually a really good cook/baker and ends up making most of the food in the house

- he knows how to decorate cakes (one of his hyperfixations)

- he also knows how to: crochet, knit, sew, sculpt, and paint

- his current fixation is metalworking mostly with wire and charms to make various jewelry pieces

- his next fixation will be candle and soap making