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Vent.

Posted 8 years, 4 months ago by InfiresMan

Okay, I just want to say something to everyone

don't get angry at people who get upset about you not talking or initating things because let me fucking tell you


Online realtionships aren't the same as real life


and people are allowed to vent, people can vent online what they want to feel - don't take it damn personal if someone posts a vent

If it was about you, IT'D BE REALLY CLEAR TRUST ME if it was about you so don't take it personal that it's about you unless stated and bloody damn ask first why they feel that way


Instead of just judging them that they're too clingy or have no right to be upset over that stuff when in reality people DO have a right to be upset about it.

oNLINE IS A FREE OPEN SPACE

YOU CAN VENT IF YOU WANT TO, PEOPLE SHOULDN'T HAVE TO HIDE THEIR VENTS

IF IT MAKES YOU UNCOMFORTABLE

DON'T FUCKING LOOK, OKAY? DON'T YOU EVER DARE SAY AND TELL THEM THEY'RE WRONG FOR THEIR OWN FEELINGS THOUGH

NOBODY IS WRONG FOR HAVING FEELINGS


If you don't agree with them, don't just write them off as unreasonable because IT COULD BE ABOUT ONE PERSON AND NOT EVERYONE THEY FEEL THAT WAY WITH.

People need to stop taking shit so literal

It's the 21st century you guys, cut it out now.

I mean fucking can't tell me YOU never got pissed if you don't hear from someone in 5 months? Yeah, so don't sit there and judge someone else for soemething YOU most likely do too 

Just because they're brave enough to approach about it and ask unlike you, it doesn't mean to take them down as being unreasonabe when really people vent this way for a reason

People want to have to feel ackolwedged 


REAL friendships online, they talk - not constantly okay I mean everyone has lifes,  I DO TOO YOU KNOW DAMN 

but they still TRY and put effort towards  a friendship

THey don't just blow people off.

Sure, some people are okay with not talking only a couple times BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN ITS OKAY

AND THAT DOESN'T MEAN ITS RIGHT

BECAUSE NEWS FLASH

REAL FRIENDSHIPS, THEY WANT TO TALK TO YOU MORE

IT MEANS YOU'RE BEING USED IF THEY DON'T TALK TO YOU ALL THE TIME

OR AT LEAST THAT'S THE VIBE YOU GIVE OFF

SO

DON'T GET PISSY AT SOMEONE WHO IS UPSET ABOUT SOMETHING THEY FEEL YOU DID. YOU NEED TO CONFRONT THE PROBLEM, NOT JUST BLAME THEM AS BEING UNREASONABLE.

And everyone, please change your views about people getting upset if you don't talk to them. It doesn't mean they're guilt tripping you to talk to them all the time, not everyone is like that. Not everyone means they want you to HAVE to talk to them all the time, okay? FUCKING GOT IT

OKAY

//I'M OUT

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8 years, 1 month ago
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8 years, 3 months ago
InfiresMan

np <33


8 years, 3 months ago
InfiresMan

np <33


8 years, 3 months ago
 Atticus Vega mills

Hhhhhh Ty for the fave on this boyyy <333


8 years, 5 months ago
softy

thanks for the favorite! 


8 years, 5 months ago
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8 years, 6 months ago
InfiresMan

anytime!!<3

shes adorable;w;

and omg ty for the faves too!! <33


8 years, 6 months ago
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8 years, 6 months ago
InfiresMan

Any time!!w//w

you have beautiful ocs;;w; 

and AHH TYSM for subbing back;o;; omg <33


8 years, 6 months ago
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Peony

-wiggles here-


8 years, 6 months ago
InfiresMan

-wiggles w u- nwn


8 years, 6 months ago
mills

Ahhh Ty for the sub <33


8 years, 6 months ago
InfiresMan

np!!;w;; love your art and ocs <3


8 years, 6 months ago
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