You may know I have identified as genderfluid for a long while now. Thing is ; i never switched genders, i was just permanently 'neutral'. But also it was hard to tell because my perception of gender is weird due to my autism. And I'm still trying to figure things out, so please bear with me! But, yes, I had a lot of fun facts that foreshadowed this coming out. In late 2017, one of my ex friends came out as agender, something I was deeply upset about without exactly knowing why. At some point I just thought it was because I liked the flag and didn't want non-binary faking people to use it. Silly, because in retrospective, it had awakened my little agender spark that couldn't be out of the time (because I lived in a conservative town, I pushed these thoughts away during years).

I am very happy with the label I'm using now and it feels right to me to call myself an "agender lesbian". Bit of a reminder, if you will; i use they/she/it pronouns!

Again, I feel like finding myself more but only time will tell. Thank you so much for reading, and here's to 2023 being my true self ♡

psa - i told my best friend earlier today while we were sleeping in, she just said, "oh right, i had kinda figured out already" with the lightest possible tone, it made me really happy. I love my best friend so much :)