(sorry for not replying to things, I was away at a “Camp” but I’m back now! I’ll be replying to things slowly though!)

I’m always wondering how to know if I’m friends with someone/if they consider me a friend, but it’s so weird to ask.. I’ve been planning to post Adoptables but let friends choose some for free before posting them, but then I’m wondering how I would know who I can message about it. But if I’m just like “hi friend thats definitely my friend“ it’s weird, and asking them also seems weird, because I know I would feel very bad if someone messaged me asking if we were friends, but I didn’t really feel like we were friends, but it would sound so rude to be like “nah we’re not friends haha”. But also, I’ve been in situations where someone who I’ve talked to only once or twice is like “my good friend Mossfeather 😎😉💅✨” in their posts and im just thinking “whaaaaat???” So I don’t wanna just call someone my friend 🤷‍♀️ 

theres also been situations I post Adoptables free for friends and people who I don’t know well, who have only commented on one or two posts of mine (or simply just followed me) are like “yeah we’re friends! free adopt?? 🌝” so I don’t know what to do 

I’m also a bit unsure of if I should include people who I used to know but haven’t spoken with in several years. 🤷‍♀️