God this has been a long time coming buT it’s no trouble at all!! As someone who grew up as the “eldest (Asian) daughter” and has friends who were shoehorned into that archetype by family, his story is a very important one imo, and I can see why it would be so cathartic for you. After all, it’s both powerful and liberating to reclaim that narrative, right? 

And I’m happy that you enjoyed my initial comment aaaaaaaa so keep writing him exactly as you are!!! 💕💕🥺