As the client... how often is it alright to check on comms?? It's been over 2 months from the sketch and okay it's a pretty big artist with many comms and it should be okay. They sent the sketch when I asked how it was going but then two months later I sent another one and?? No reply?? For a few weeks now. A peeve of mine is when the artist doesn't have a time frame in their info and doesn't tell you either... like I must know some estimate so I won't bother youuu ;;
-When you give them a perfect pose reference and they just... do something completely different. Though most of the time it looks good anyway but I'm surprised tho, this isn't what I asked but thanks u kno'.
As the artist:
-I PANIC everytime you contact me, even if it's not about the commission because at first I think it is and even though it's been 3 days is like AAAAA I'm sorry I'm taking so looong ;; And whenever they are all kind and say they truly dont mind I still get the bad thought that they do care and are just being polite and are actually mad at me. I know you are being honest and you're not mad at me, my anxiety is just a b*tch, it okay.
- When they suddendly tryna be friends with me. It feels weird and anxiety kicks in again. There are more casual ways of befriending people. Like light comments or commenting on personal art. But you know, if you ramdonly send me pics of your pets I'm not gonna complain at all.
- When they never check the queue link you gave them and just ask you directly, lowkey impatient. A wild user has appeared, the customer is exerting their pressure! I take within 1 and 7 business days on each comm. Please relax.
- Kind of personal but when they don't give me pose, expression nor even vibe. And the character's profile is blank. Just gimme a hint of what would make you happy aaa