PSA: PandabeIIe/BellaBB

Posted 11 months, 9 days ago by laneycore

update: included their response bulletin

report link incase of username change: https://toyhou.se/~tickets/create/user/6458

Hello. this was a long overdue document on a user who has done alot of highly questionable things. This has been talked about publicly before but since nobody has made a proper psa on their actions. i went ahead and did it myself.
this was made for Elfen as he is the main victim.

their known for aggressively defending fujoshis and proshippers, redesigned a character into a racist depiction of chinese and japanese people, disrespectfully sexualizing gay men, talking over marginalized groups theyre not a part of, harassing people thru throwaway accounts, ect
thanks if you read ! do note theres alot of sensitive topics mentioned in the doc. if youre a minor or just sensitive to certain things please tread carefully.

like said in the doc if you have any additional info on this user and want to share, please send it to either Elf's SO Ventricus or me. do not try to argue with me about proshipping or fujoshi discourse. And do not message Elf please. thanks. 

https://toyhou.se/~bulletins/1523297.psa
btw if the images dont show up properly even in the app lmk ive heard multiple reports on ppl trying to see it thru phone but im not sure how to fix it. ill just put a imgur link for ease of access.

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Shit, right. They sent me this PSA after I did a trade with them(it was one of the worst experiences I've ever had in terms of negotiation) and my friend was also doing a trade with them and on the same day they already put the dainty back on offer without asking if my friend felt comfortable (Besides, the dainty had a high value and the dainty he traded for had a lower value, and yet, they (panda) insisted on him adding art because it didn't match the price or it was unfair (something strange like that.)

I don't know if this goes against the rules of this CS, everything in these docs because I left CS a while ago then, but I think it's unfair for them to keep them still in CS(unless they don't know about the problem or well-?) But I'm sorry about all this 

from what im understanding. belle sent you their own psa after a bad trade?? for what reason? unless i read this incorrectly.

also from what i know. theyve been reported multiple times but either the mods were too lazy to check the psa. or they did and didnt take any action.. so the most i can do is just let their actions be known.

SORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH! (I was sleepy and had just gotten back from a trip aa)

Basically I made a trade with Bella, so after that I decided to disconnect from CS (because it really was a bit of a headache), then a few days ago, a friend mentioned that he found a PSA of Bella and send me. I ended up sending it to another friend who is doing a trade with Bella (but after that he feels uncomfortable continuing, even though he wants the Dainty, and Bella has already put the part he made a trade with them up for offer again without asking him, so he's preferring to stay with the trade even though it's very unfair. (why does the dainty he traded have a value of more or less $350?? Or more because of a custom he ordered and art, as well as being a GA Mod Dainty CB. And Bella said that even so it would still be unfair to trade and asked him to add art to the offer, if I'm not mistaken it's a 4/3 pieces of art)

And that really sucks. Dainties mods are quick sometimes, and sometimes they decide to turn a blind eye to some members of the community (I could be wrong, but it really seems like a favoritism, or just lazy to solve such a big problem or something, but who will know what it is) I remember that a former friend of mine left the community completely after a girl almost scammed him and the most the mods did was tell him to talk to her first, and in the end he just managed to recover a 1 of 3 thing that he traded with her.

(AND GOD SORRY FOR SUCH A LONG TEXT)

ohh no worries ! yaa the dainty mods are not great and the staff had very noticeable favoritism. seen it myself. the staff will treat users differently depending on who they are. ill just say that. also 3/4 pieces of art is absurd and just feels like a recipe for disaster ill be honest lmao esp if ur doing it for someone you dont even feel comfortable with. have done it before and ill say its not worth it. 

Gonna be doing a blocking spree so this person doesn't show up anywhere near my spaces. I've also warned others as well.


Absolutely fuck this person.

Oh yikes, speaking as a trans SEAsian, I interacted with panda when I saw them on other peoples posts, but all this stuff esp the weird fetishization and appropriation of Asian culture and their de-aging/shota-fying of characters to make nsfw is so gross. I hope Elfen and the others are okay

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is there scs of this? thats pretty shitty

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oh,,, she gave em the yaoi uke looking treatment too

As a trans Asian person with a Chinese family, pandas sexualization of a Chinese character is so fucking gross and vile 🤢🤢

Ty for making the psa 

yww

They dmed me a while back bc they owned a character that I currently have. I deleted some of the art bc it made me extremely uncomfortable (nsfw of a character that doesn’t initially look like a child- drawn childlike with an extremely older guy)


Basically they were just asking if I wanted those files bc they weren’t on my characters page n obviously I declined


Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against art styles where characters look younger, tbh they’re pretty cute but,,, not for nsfw 💀he was on purposely drawn like a 10 year old 🦧


And considering I had just got the character from someone else around that time, the owner I bought it from did inform me of nsfw art but had it on private, it’s stupid that I didn’t ask to see it but seeing that art genuinely put me off from that oc for a good while 😭

yeah,, that seems like something she likes to do. with character dynamics and all. which oc was this?

This one 

https://toyhou.se/11271305.yunjin 

He means a lot to me so I’m glad I managed to move on from that situation 😭 I don’t ever plan to sell him + I’m kinda worried considering the type of character he is, he might fall into the hands of another problematic person 

ahh. considering bad actors i could understand that. sucks man.

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Oof, yeah, if I saw that art when I was looking to buy him I probably would’ve been put off too 😭

But I hope In the future I can do him some justice and give him some proper love and not problematic stuff 😭🙏


im glad u managed to reconnect! this is only mildly related but i thought you might want a heads up that a lot of his images still have bella's watermark, so u might wanna go thru and regen the watermarks on those!!

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Hmm, I've had Belle blocked here for a while just because I didn't. Care for her personality...which in itself wouldn't be noteworthy since I thought we were adults on the internet, and had also heard murmurings of her being somebody that I probs wouldn't wanna interact with anyway. But after she noticed her being blocked (dainty ad reasons, big shocker), she clearly took issue with this to the point where she sent me a Discord message vying for a reason behind my blocking her

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I originally let this message sit unblocked for like a day because I was debating, y'know, Telling her that I just didn't vibe with her, but then a buddy that I had showed her message sent me this ask that was submitted to a drama blog...it's obviously unverifiable since it was on anon, but the timing felt uncanny enough for me to raise an eyebrow. Especially considering the ask refers to the blocker as a "she" — I've got "they/them" plastered on every single social account of mine...so that gave me the ick for sure :B

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To add to my suspicions, she followed me on Instagram during this span of time! I didn't think to take a screenshot of her follow notification so again, can't verify that with proof, but this is her in my block list:

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Needless to say, the (supposed) misgendering and (supposed) inclination towards considering using an alt to bug me for a block reason, on top of the fact that she thought it'd be copacetic to follow me on different platforms despite being blocked on Toyhouse, it very much felt like the hint...wasn't being taken. Dare I say, kinda block evadey

i see. she really likes to block evade.

also suspected she had been using those tumblr blogs before. and was just on anon. good to know.

Yeah, it's certainly something to take into consideration. It wouldn't have been such an issue if it hadn't felt like she immediately decided "well if I can't follow them here, I'll just follow them everywhere else even if they've made it clear that they don't want me to"

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have you thought about posting this on forum (service and reviews) too? I am not too sure on it's rules but I think getting this out would be for the best 

i've considered ! i just dunno yet because minimods. i thiiink it applies to the rules tho.

it's worth a shot since their behaviour is genuinely so predatory + nasty generally ?? I have seen similar psas on other people for these kind of things so it should be okay afaik?

ahh. yeah. youre right. ill do that tomorrow.

of course!! please take care 🫶

yeahhh, bella's behavior has been questionable for years. i can attest to the fact her oc haruyo had an "aphrodisiac" element to his power since i was in that rp group and i remember me and my friends all going like "Hey What." she had kind of sexualized art of him at the time too iirc 

unfortunate it wasnt archived. so i dont have direct proof. thanks for confirming tho ! i presumed the art i found is one of the "bordering on sexual" art of him

yeah, i remember it was forced to be editted pretty quickly 💀 but i was applying to the group i think at the same time or smth with a friend, so we both saw that oc. as for the art, i havent actually seen that one - the ones im referring to seem to have been deleted (for good reason) but it was stuff like him being drawn with rly sexualized proportions + i remember one him eating a melting popsicle or smth weird like that SDAKF

ohh. ew.

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yww

I have interacted with them a lot, this is really really good information for me to know so I can stay away from them--
I always heard about their misdemeanors but never exactly knew-- thank you so much for making this!!

Yw!

I had always heard about this person but never actually read up on what they'd done and man ... that's just so creepy 
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i had no idea ty for making this 

weird people in dainties part 47