Ok so I've had a few people ask me "Cosette, why won't you let people keep the names you give characters you're trading?"  Well it makes me uncomfortable for 3 reasons.

Reason 1) I often times reuse names. Like a lot. I always pick names that resonate with me, so just because the character role is no longer needed or in use doesn't mean I don't resonate with the name any longer. 75% of the time the name will be reused for a role I am using. Almost all my characters have first and last names, some even have middle names. So we'll there may be 300 "Alistair"s on toyhou.se there will likely only be one "Alistair Ridley Moore" and that is mine. It makes my character unique and identifiable.

Reason 2) I am trading you a design, not a piece of my story. By taking the name you're essentially taking one of my ideas for your own, almost always, without asking me. If I decided to take your characters personality, their likes and dislikes, or their history you'd be rather upset. I've stolen a piece of your story. The same goes with my name's. I don't, and will never trade my stories, just the cosmetic casing of a character.

Reason 3) Seeing someone use my name with the same design I had on it with a different personality feels like you've just OOCed and created a crack AU of my character. I don't care if you think that's stupid that's how it feels to me. 

So please. Do not keep my names, my personalities, biographies, or anything non design related for my ocs. You can ask if you can keep them but 8/10 times I will say no.

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thats perfectly understandable! sometimes i dont know why people do that, but i guess people dont realize....hopefully  people talk more about this cause as it turns out it really does make plenty of people uncomfortable when the character is rehomed and the story/name/etc is recycled without permission by the new owner!

What I like to do is to just completely delete everything in the profile, and change the name to the resell price. If I still need the profile I’ll just copy/paste it someone else.

I completely understand!

I'm honestly guilty of reusing peoples names, but I think that people shouldn't be using other's character names, especially if they are very unique and specific to that user. Im probably going to ask people before hand from now one >o<

I mean it's genuinely frowned upon to keep someone's characters personality, or history. Why isn't any less different to keep their name? Usually thats their identity. If one's a Naruto you know who installing about. If I say Inuyasha you know who I'm talking about. 

I completely agree!