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Posted 7 years, 4 months ago (Edited 4 years, 8 months ago) by Ventmod

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FuuMiku

Some people on here are just so dang petty and disrespectful I’m aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Typing those a’s was actually pretty calming

It’s just like,, when that pettiness and disrespect is directed at me it feels so shitty and like I don’t need that?? In my life?? Why is it so hard to just be understanding and have some sympathy or something

Edit: man it’s been a while and I still feel so horrible. Everybody hates me and they’re right, but yeah no in reality it’s just been 2 people recently and I feel like it’s the end of my life, and everybody else is super nice. Idk I just have no emotional energy for ppl treating me like this

Edit 2: oh wow I’m dumb i should have meditated why didn’t I think of this earlier

It honestly feels good to have this thread on here, like I see all these nice peeps in forums and they too get irritated and have bad moments, I feel way less alone and self-conscious

I’m binge watching kung fu panda to feel better


CanineKing

i don't want to re do a class just because my prof fucked up on the due date

real stress hours tonight lads

RU-HX

My cabin mate didn’t bother to turn their phone’s alarm off so it keeps snoozing and waking me up.

Now I would love to disable it but it wants a password to stop it so I’m stuck with the fucking thing going off until whenever their break is.

Oujiton

SHITFUCK

AlleycatIrony

christ i wish my roommate would move out and we've only been living together for maybe... pushing two months

i'd rather move back in w/ my abusive family than continue dealing w/ him

i didn't even want to move out w/ him bc i knew it'd make me miserable but like everything else in my life the decision was made for me and i didn't have a choice

cryptocorvid

(offsite) love the feeling of panic when someone you know has ripped off your friends' designs and stuff before shows fondness of a character that's very special to you and you're just. panics in i love my boy and i will cry if anything happens because i'm too cowardly to stand up for myself. especially since this person has been such an asshole to people who have confronted them before;;; i'm. sure it'll be fine because this person has actually made their love for one of my characters much more obvious before and never ripped him off, but god i'm just so nervous. this would really be the straw to break the camel's back of my mental state right now if i have to deal with this bullshit again. 

cryptocorvid

i redrew something yesterday with the hopes that it'd maybe make me start to feel better about my art and my self in general, since i've been in such a bad place with it lately, but literally one (1) person out of maybe 10 who gave me a response to the piece said that they still really liked the original, not even that the original was better, that they liked the original just as much as the redraw, and now i feel like complete and utter shit again lmfao

like it's no hard feelings at the person, they're someone i wouldn't really consider a close friend but i like them and i like talking to them and they're a nice enough person but somehow they have me feeling so bad about myself and i don't even understand because their comment wasn't even negative, but it just makes me feel like i've kind of plateaued and haven't been improving, despite so many other people telling me otherwise. i really wish my brain wouldn't hyperfocus in on the negative and let me focus on the overwhelmingly more positive response. 

Sealkitty

I like how my efforts are undermined, feelings are ignored and I'm repeatedly disrespected but I suddenly matter when something is needed. I must be a doormat, that's why I keep getting stepped on