(i do not suggest getting electrocuted though it's no fun)
personally? so long as i talk once a month with friends, even if for a little bit, i think we're still good friends -- hell, the friends i have offline i hardly talk to face to face because we're always busy e3e
but you're right, it depends from person to person -- you can think you're good friends only talking every so often but the other party might not, and one sided friendship can be... unfulfilling sometimes? so it's always good to just... ask the other party, and then try to find the perfect balance between active enough and "able to run away because anxiety or the like when you need to"
and yeah, some people i am okay with that too if I know they're geniuley busy but when I know they're not and just talking to only people they want, it makes me so mad. I mean I know people are more comfortable with cetain people too, but still like if you are planning to make more friends, don't just string them along. You need effort like you put in the others too.
And, exactlyyy, yess, agree 100% ;w; that's what I'm honestly going to try to do too from now on and hope people will learn too and not just get upset if someone suddenly decides they don't want to be friends with someone over that too, I mean, people want different things in friendships and should just stop getting angry at people for what they want or how they feel, it's like the 21st century we should be better then this by now xD
InfiresMan
oh yeah it got settled xD
(i do not suggest getting electrocuted though it's no fun)
personally? so long as i talk once a month with friends, even if for a little bit, i think we're still good friends -- hell, the friends i have offline i hardly talk to face to face because we're always busy e3e
but you're right, it depends from person to person -- you can think you're good friends only talking every so often but the other party might not, and one sided friendship can be... unfulfilling sometimes? so it's always good to just... ask the other party, and then try to find the perfect balance between active enough and "able to run away because anxiety or the like when you need to"
6 years, 3 months ago
;u; I would think that would not be fun, yeah
be careful, feather XD
and yeah, some people i am okay with that too if I know they're geniuley busy but when I know they're not and just talking to only people they want, it makes me so mad. I mean I know people are more comfortable with cetain people too, but still like if you are planning to make more friends, don't just string them along. You need effort like you put in the others too.
And, exactlyyy, yess, agree 100% ;w; that's what I'm honestly going to try to do too from now on and hope people will learn too and not just get upset if someone suddenly decides they don't want to be friends with someone over that too, I mean, people want different things in friendships and should just stop getting angry at people for what they want or how they feel, it's like the 21st century we should be better then this by now xD
6 years, 3 months ago Edited 8:37 am
i'll try lol
and sounds like a good plan. all relationships require maintenance and understanding. talking helps a lot i've found xD
6 years, 3 months ago