I don't think I ever posted it here, but if someone would want help/advice for characters who're aromantic and not also asexual (AKA aro-allos), feel free to ping me, DM me, whatever y'all would like. I'm here to help. I however can't speak on the concept of "QPPs" so uhhh please don't use the q word when talking to me, trauma related
I think I only briefly talked about it in the open, but I'm generally saddened when I see aroallo characters on here... I feel like every time I find a character who's aromantic and allosexual its almost always written as if it's because people find them repulsive, because they hate people, overall because the author deems them "unlikeable" and therefore aren't capable of receiving romantic love... Not grasping that that isn't how it works at all. They're basically making incels that're vengeful for people not liking them. That's not what it's about and that's a horrible agenda to push. And the fact that this is the majority is alarming to me.
I also see this, albeit less, but aroallo characters being labelled that because they don't care about people and use them. Which is also really bad!! The lack of romantic feelings doesn't automatically mean they hate people. It also doesn't make people hypersexual. Or... Evil! Which I also see. Something something "no love in their heart" (yeesh)
Its been grinding my gears for a while, and its a really shitty thing to put out there when aroallo is a small minority that already constantly gets talked over and deemed inherently "disgusting", whether outright or implied by dogwhistles. It really doesn't help when its already perceived horribly by others (IE "you don't know what love is", "you just want to use people"), and its disappointing to see every time, especially when the OP isn't aroallo... And it gets a little worse when they're aspec in some form and put that out there, via seeing a lot of "purity" arguments in relation to sex being evil and bad and romance being pure. Or both being bad. Generally speaking the rest of aspec doesn't really accept us. I just wanna get along, man.
Basically what I'm trying to say is... If you make an aroallo character please just treat them normally. Not being into romance in one form or another doesn't fundamentally change someone at their core to where it's their only defining trait. It shouldn't interfere with worldbuilding or writing unless you try to put them in a romantic situation. If my wording seems off I'm just thinking about it and sadKLJFDGBFK;DNH sorry about that. If you have aroallo characters who don't fit these then I platonically kiss them mwah