General pet peeves thread

Posted 5 years, 3 months ago (Edited 3 years, 6 months ago) by PS-X

6/11/19: big description edit

This is the thread for general pet peeves. I don't mean character ones or fandom pet peeves, I mean random, not specific to anything pet peeves.

Rules

1. Please don't name anybody.

2. If anybody starts to argue, take it to profile comments or PMs.

3. Black out any sensitive content.

deadngone

potentially sensitive content? talking about race and whatnot : eta hi page topper

my peeve is whenever people (mainly whites) say something racist/potentially racist, and upon someone else speaking up telling them to not say those things, they go "what do you care, you're not [insert race]!"

as someone who is black, but passes as white, i've had countless times of this happening and getting surprised reactions of "i didn't know you were black". i mean.. i guess mixed or light skinned black people don't exist then? have you ever been to.. any public place? a school, or mall, or even downtown?

it makes me   please don't @ me to debate, this is just me and i'm not interested in explaining myself over this

007

When I can hear people breath. It’s really annoying please stop :’)

At that point you gotta be aware, just please close your mouth it’s a huge bother

(This is not directed to anyone in particular, it just occasionally happens irl and I don’t have the guts to tell people to quiet down)

CARLO

when someone says "I'll do it in a bit" and then they don't do it till like 

idfk 4 hours later or never in most cases 

//just to clarify this isn't anything to do with like commissions. This is like IRL things like chores n all that good stuff.

fizzelston

Clogged noses, like.. thanks body 

Tarning

i see this a lot but
people who refer to other peoples races as "white/black" is my biggest pet peeve t b h
white is not a race
black is not a race
they are not races. they are skin colors (and... not even accurate, for that matter) and its a term that I usually see used to generalize or stereotype millions of people (usually stereotyping light skinned people these days).

relatedly: that people don't know how many vastly different cultures they are actually referring to when they use White and Black as racial terms. "White" people are not one culture and race, they are HUNDREDS. "Black" people are not one culture and race, they are also HUNDREDS.

How fucking dare people generalize any group based on skin color? How dare you erase the rich cultures and individuality of those people by lumping them all into two groups based on the amount of melanin in their skin?

Referring to anyone as "white" or "black" is racist and bigoted, don't @ me, you wont change my mind.

atempause

thankfully not an issue on this site but when people write in an extremely light colored text when the site's background is white

Becky I'm glad your avatar, signature and text formatting matches all so well creating a cute soft pink aesthetics but I literally can't see a single damn word in there and I won't bother reading any of it

deadngone

Clockwork I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH...

this peeve is really silly but whenever people leave the microwave with time still left on it? it makes people think that stuff is still heating up in there and i've seen a few people stand around a microwave waiting for it to change b4 someone says "oh i already got my stuff lol"

vampyric

people using the word psychotic to insult someone or degrade them!

:)

im fucking psychotic.

007

When people don’t cover their cough (at least in public) it’s nasty as hell

I’m no germaphobe by any means, but coughing into the open air crosses the line for me