I... I just...
Don’t.. take a slot then ghost me.
I wait a week then try contacting you, then you get mad at me for not doing your commission?
I always make sure to clearly state in my TOS that I ONLY take payment upfront, due to really bad anxiety and fear of being scammed. While sometimes I may make an exception if I’m way too excited to start and they’ve already proven that they’re trustworthy, it’s not that huge of an amount of money, etc. But if you’re the one who I haven’t made much contact with and are just there to grab a quick sketch or an icon, don’t get pissed off if I wait for payment then not do it or take you off because of lack of communication. If you’re making my other clients wait, then your bad, you can just claim a slot next time I open.
Another peeve of mine is when I see people put up threads then make the examples impossible to find in a sea of text and links, then turn around and complain that people aren’t buying the art. I’m sorry but I’m not going to read through your monologue about how you need a new laptop before quickly scrolling down to look at examples. If I actually have to make an effort to search, only to come up with something I wouldn’t be comfortable commissioning, I feel like it’s a waste of time.
Also, when people have some kind of lack of communication in general. Just.. is it that hard just to say you’ve been a bit busy and you’ll get to work as soon as you have time? Hell, I might not even ask for a WIP, because as a buyer I feel the need to honor and respect you, and believe you. If you choose to disrespect me and lie, then not only do you have your trust broken with your customers ( causing none to return), you bet your ass I’m going to be pissed as hell, even if I don’t say it to your face.