Bambi's Links
Enzo didn't expect Benito to turn out to be a Benita, although he did feel a weird bit of attraction to her before--fortunately one he chose not to mention to anyone. Enzo sees no issue with Bambi's gender coming into play within the mafia, though of course he is aware of the rules. Bambi works hard and she gets her jobs done, and that's all that should matter. He worries about her more than he does his men, initially, but she quickly proves his worries are unnecessary, and Enzo feels more comfortable trusting her dangerous missons. Though the two aren't the very best of friends, they do maintain a very close relationship that mostly consists of Bambi nagging Enzo about various things in Enzo's life, from his love life to his inability to cook.
Jamie considers Bambi one of his close friends, even if they don't spend as much time together as he does with Luka and Enzo. He strongly supports her being part of the mafia and doesn't see her gender as a disadvantage. If anything, he tends to view Bambi as part of the lads anyway--especially considering her physical appearance. As with most people, Jamie is able to look past her bluntness and appreciate other aspects of her personality. He admires her strength and is interested in her hobbies, often asking to tag along or learn more. Most of all, Jamie loves sending her memes, especially to tease her about her younger brother Pepe.
Being raised with traditional values and traditional mafia values, at that, Orlando thinks it's wrong to have a woman involved in the more violent aspects of the family. Bambi should be home cooking and tending house, not coming along on missions and beating people to a pulp, and it annoys him that no one else seems to mind that her being their goes against rules that have been set for generations. Plus, there's no one she can be as strong as the guys are. Though Bambi herself doesn't really rub him the wrong way and he's fine with her outside of work, he thinks that she doesn't belong among them and that Jamie vouching for her was a mistake.