Yeah true, I can see the tediousness in it though it might be convenient for anyone that shares resources, and for anybody that might be looking for them (it does get frustrating when you can't find exactly what you're looking for) if you were to consider adding it later on. Suggested reading sounds like a fantastic idea and yeah afaik prompts are mostly influences by people's suggestions anyway so that shouldn't be too bad; I really like the idea of lit and art challenges. It could also be worthwhile just throwing up a small suggestions channel in the Discord itself and seeing if people could propose any different ideas that they might have already picked up along the way previously, and I suppose that in itself has some community involvement with people helping to build the server. Overnight I also pondered some sort of rewards systems for prompts or general helpfulness (proposing ideas to the different channels, prompts, reading etc.) to help a motive in putting their time into the place, but I don't know how that might go down without funding of some sort.
Love the rules tbh simple but super effective. My only pointers might be that NSFW of certain kinks/topics might want to be tagged appropriately, hopped under a spoiler if they're something particularly gnarly (thinking violence etc.), and perhaps that extremities might want to be added to the BB3 for others' additional comfort such as rape/necrophilia/anything super strange like hygiene-related kinks. I'm not sure how the stance would be on banning these but they might be better off adding to the list and seeing if anybody in the server would have any different opinions on them, though it might be a touch distasteful to allow them.
Was gonna reply yesterday but I'd spent all day doing uni forms and got to a point where words stopped being words so thought I'd leave it until I'd rested.
I def get that, tbh half of why I wondered about a recommended reading is sometimes it's tricky and overwhelming just knowing where to start? Ngl I put off digging deeper into researching the Lancaster bit of my WW2 plot for so long because of that but I do think a media recs and suggested reading would be best and most effective as a collaborative effort.
A suggestions channel is def a good shout. I'm interested in a rewards system but I'm not sure what to offer? I need to get back into discord and see how other people do rewards for that kind of thing, if they utilize such a system then go from there. That and now there's a base idea in place for the server I'm looking to actually start making it soon.
Rape/necrophilia will def be going on the not allowed list, thanks for reminding me of that. In regards to the strange/hygiene related kinks I had thought about not allowing them (I know I would not feel comfortable in a server that allowed those kinds of things) but hadn't got as far as adding it into the ruleset. How about this amendment to the NSFW rule?
3) NSFW is allowed but the parties involved MUST be over the age of 18. NSFW work must be kept into the appropriate channel. Content depicting pedophilia, rape, incest, necrophilia, diapers/scat, watersport, vomit play, vore, inflation/fat fetish, stomp/snuff that's about all I can think of for extreme strange/hygiene fetishes that might make folk uncomfortable? If I'm missing some that really need to be noted feel free to give me a nudge are not allowed within the server. Art depicting BDSM is allowed but should be placed under a spoiler and warned for as appropriate.
As for violence and sensitive content, how about this for an additional rule?
Content depicting violence/gore or sensitive/potentially triggering topics should be placed under a spoiler and warned for as appropriate.
No problem at all, take your time! sorry for the late reply myself
Yeah that's totally fair, I think it'd be a good idea to include it in there for people. The only real worry I suppose is how it'd show up on the server but it might be wise to just have suggested reading channels for each era if that wasn't a plan already. I'm not sure how it could be done otherwise without a third-party site like a Google Doc, or some serious organising; the former would be way easier for people to find what they want.
If it's OC-centric I think art and writing would be enough to give people a taste to contribute tbh that's usually enough without bringing money into it. The servers I'm on atm do little contests like the Hunger Games simulator in between actual prompts and always reward art to the winning character, for example. I suppose another idea might be some sort of points system, which might be especially effective with prompts, and tallying the count at the end of a certain period (a week, a month, etc.) and rewarding the character with the most points or awarding characters who have been particularly active/developed/entered for prompts. I don't know how effective that'd be in itself so it's probably not worth doing but I've seen that be done once or twice to encourage teamplay between people
That's fair! Love the sound of how the rule sits atm, though if other kinks are fine it might be best adding them alongside BDSM in the last sentence just so that the rule speaks a bit more clearly without people having to ask questions about it first. The last rule sounds just fine to me too tbh! also LOL I had no idea what stomp was what a great shame that that's a thing
Sorry I've been afik been figuring out how discord works and starting to put this server together. It's been so long since I last went on discord it took 30 mins to get past the updates lmao.
That's how I did it in the end. I made a channel for folks to ask for help if they're not getting anywhere with google and need pointing in the right direction, I've also split it by period after that. Ended up using channel groups so it can be collapsed down out of the way.
I'll def consider the idea, it sounds like I'm being difficult and resisting the suggestion but I am reluctant to put art/writing rewards in place just yet purely because I am planning to go to uni next year and idk how much that'll affect my activity and energy levels for drawing, especially since it is a largely practical course. I think the best thing would be to see how things go then go from there! That does sound interesting so I will look into doing something like that. Would probably be best to wait until there's more members before putting on an event like that.
I decided to split BDSM and kinks that are allowed into it's separate channel away from the general NSFW channel. Both are agelocked channels that (hopefully) you'd have to ask to opt-in/opt out as I've seen another channel do. I've also put a note in the NSFW rule that by asking for kinky-nsfw category means you consent to seeing BDSM related content.
I've also broken the server down into categories so we have:
general which covers rules, intro, general chat, fandom, suggestions/feedback and help center.
Art share, broken down by periods. Also includes a section for sharing OC profiles, sharing stories/fic snippets sharing WIP's and sketches, story related stuff and requests for feedback.
Resource and media recs, again broken down by periods + channel to ask for help writing historical fiction OC's.
Fun Stuff - games and such will go here.
smut corner - nsfw channels are here.
Aye it is a shame but I've seen so much of it on the front page of FA I thought I'd better account for it.
The server's almost ready to go I just need to figure out how to set the nsfw servers so they're invite only.
Oh wow rofl no worries though, no need to apologise at all! Sounds good though tbh I love the sound of that
You're fine, don't worry! I can see how it might be a bit of a chore when the community is small (getting to show off OCs and one's own art/writing/etc. is motivation enough to do prompts anyway tbh), especially if you're busy yourself. Could be worth noting for later and seeing if you can take some sort of poll on it from the people in the server when it busies up.
Nice, that's a good idea! the layout you have for the channels sounds good, though tbh I'm somewhat confused by how the periods are laid out, but then I think that we would have had different visions for how it might work. I suppose it'd be easier to make sense of to see it, it sounds fantastic overall though and can't think of anything that would need adding or removing without other third-party feedback
LMAO you're good the world is better off without that sort of stuff I feel like
afaik the only/easiest way to do that would be by creating a role specifically for the nsfw channel and restricting access to everyone from posting/reading in it; there's a post here that explains how to do it if this helps you figure it out (presuming you haven't yet but I apologise if you have)
I think at this point it's best if I show you the progress in the server it's self? Here's a link if you'd like: https://discord.gg/KWV2V3
I just figured it was easier for folks to pick and choose what they want to see. In the suggestions channel I've logged some of the stuff you've suggested in the suggestions channel as a reminder. I also wondered about an art fight like event within the server where people could trade art or fics but that'd probably require a larger base to work.
That's very true, I'm def guilty of taking the chance to talk about my OC's when I can that's part of why I enjoy the character discussion forums here so much. :'D
Agree there, ngl there's some very questionable kinks I've seen drawn FA that rather frankly I wish I could unsee.
It's no worries, thank you for the link. Also thank you so much for all your feedback you've been a big help and I really appreciate it!
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Yeah true, I can see the tediousness in it though it might be convenient for anyone that shares resources, and for anybody that might be looking for them (it does get frustrating when you can't find exactly what you're looking for) if you were to consider adding it later on. Suggested reading sounds like a fantastic idea and yeah afaik prompts are mostly influences by people's suggestions anyway so that shouldn't be too bad; I really like the idea of lit and art challenges. It could also be worthwhile just throwing up a small suggestions channel in the Discord itself and seeing if people could propose any different ideas that they might have already picked up along the way previously, and I suppose that in itself has some community involvement with people helping to build the server. Overnight I also pondered some sort of rewards systems for prompts or general helpfulness (proposing ideas to the different channels, prompts, reading etc.) to help a motive in putting their time into the place, but I don't know how that might go down without funding of some sort.
Love the rules tbh simple but super effective. My only pointers might be that NSFW of certain kinks/topics might want to be tagged appropriately, hopped under a spoiler if they're something particularly gnarly (thinking violence etc.), and perhaps that extremities might want to be added to the BB3 for others' additional comfort such as rape/necrophilia/anything super strange like hygiene-related kinks. I'm not sure how the stance would be on banning these but they might be better off adding to the list and seeing if anybody in the server would have any different opinions on them, though it might be a touch distasteful to allow them.
4 years, 7 months ago
Was gonna reply yesterday but I'd spent all day doing uni forms and got to a point where words stopped being words so thought I'd leave it until I'd rested.
I def get that, tbh half of why I wondered about a recommended reading is sometimes it's tricky and overwhelming just knowing where to start? Ngl I put off digging deeper into researching the Lancaster bit of my WW2 plot for so long because of that but I do think a media recs and suggested reading would be best and most effective as a collaborative effort.
A suggestions channel is def a good shout. I'm interested in a rewards system but I'm not sure what to offer? I need to get back into discord and see how other people do rewards for that kind of thing, if they utilize such a system then go from there. That and now there's a base idea in place for the server I'm looking to actually start making it soon.
Rape/necrophilia will def be going on the not allowed list, thanks for reminding me of that. In regards to the strange/hygiene related kinks I had thought about not allowing them (I know I would not feel comfortable in a server that allowed those kinds of things) but hadn't got as far as adding it into the ruleset. How about this amendment to the NSFW rule?
3) NSFW is allowed but the parties involved MUST be over the age of 18. NSFW work must be kept into the appropriate channel.
Content depicting pedophilia, rape, incest, necrophilia, diapers/scat, watersport, vomit play, vore, inflation/fat fetish, stomp/snuff that's about all I can think of for extreme strange/hygiene fetishes that might make folk uncomfortable? If I'm missing some that really need to be noted feel free to give me a nudge are not allowed within the server. Art depicting BDSM is allowed but should be placed under a spoiler and warned for as appropriate.
As for violence and sensitive content, how about this for an additional rule?
Content depicting violence/gore or sensitive/potentially triggering topics should be placed under a spoiler and warned for as appropriate.
4 years, 7 months ago
No problem at all, take your time! sorry for the late reply myself
Yeah that's totally fair, I think it'd be a good idea to include it in there for people. The only real worry I suppose is how it'd show up on the server but it might be wise to just have suggested reading channels for each era if that wasn't a plan already. I'm not sure how it could be done otherwise without a third-party site like a Google Doc, or some serious organising; the former would be way easier for people to find what they want.
If it's OC-centric I think art and writing would be enough to give people a taste to contribute tbh that's usually enough without bringing money into it. The servers I'm on atm do little contests like the Hunger Games simulator in between actual prompts and always reward art to the winning character, for example. I suppose another idea might be some sort of points system, which might be especially effective with prompts, and tallying the count at the end of a certain period (a week, a month, etc.) and rewarding the character with the most points or awarding characters who have been particularly active/developed/entered for prompts. I don't know how effective that'd be in itself so it's probably not worth doing but I've seen that be done once or twice to encourage teamplay between people
That's fair! Love the sound of how the rule sits atm, though if other kinks are fine it might be best adding them alongside BDSM in the last sentence just so that the rule speaks a bit more clearly without people having to ask questions about it first. The last rule sounds just fine to me too tbh! also LOL I had no idea what stomp was what a great shame that that's a thing
4 years, 7 months ago
Sorry I've been afik been figuring out how discord works and starting to put this server together. It's been so long since I last went on discord it took 30 mins to get past the updates lmao.
That's how I did it in the end. I made a channel for folks to ask for help if they're not getting anywhere with google and need pointing in the right direction, I've also split it by period after that. Ended up using channel groups so it can be collapsed down out of the way.
I'll def consider the idea, it sounds like I'm being difficult and resisting the suggestion but I am reluctant to put art/writing rewards in place just yet purely because I am planning to go to uni next year and idk how much that'll affect my activity and energy levels for drawing, especially since it is a largely practical course. I think the best thing would be to see how things go then go from there! That does sound interesting so I will look into doing something like that. Would probably be best to wait until there's more members before putting on an event like that.
I decided to split BDSM and kinks that are allowed into it's separate channel away from the general NSFW channel. Both are agelocked channels that (hopefully) you'd have to ask to opt-in/opt out as I've seen another channel do. I've also put a note in the NSFW rule that by asking for kinky-nsfw category means you consent to seeing BDSM related content.
I've also broken the server down into categories so we have:
4 years, 7 months ago
Oh wow rofl no worries though, no need to apologise at all! Sounds good though tbh I love the sound of that
You're fine, don't worry! I can see how it might be a bit of a chore when the community is small (getting to show off OCs and one's own art/writing/etc. is motivation enough to do prompts anyway tbh), especially if you're busy yourself. Could be worth noting for later and seeing if you can take some sort of poll on it from the people in the server when it busies up.
Nice, that's a good idea! the layout you have for the channels sounds good, though tbh I'm somewhat confused by how the periods are laid out, but then I think that we would have had different visions for how it might work. I suppose it'd be easier to make sense of to see it, it sounds fantastic overall though and can't think of anything that would need adding or removing without other third-party feedback
LMAO you're good the world is better off without that sort of stuff I feel like
afaik the only/easiest way to do that would be by creating a role specifically for the nsfw channel and restricting access to everyone from posting/reading in it; there's a post here that explains how to do it if this helps you figure it out (presuming you haven't yet but I apologise if you have)
4 years, 7 months ago
I think at this point it's best if I show you the progress in the server it's self? Here's a link if you'd like: https://discord.gg/KWV2V3
I just figured it was easier for folks to pick and choose what they want to see. In the suggestions channel I've logged some of the stuff you've suggested in the suggestions channel as a reminder. I also wondered about an art fight like event within the server where people could trade art or fics but that'd probably require a larger base to work.
That's very true, I'm def guilty of taking the chance to talk about my OC's when I can that's part of why I enjoy the character discussion forums here so much. :'D
Agree there, ngl there's some very questionable kinks I've seen drawn FA that rather frankly I wish I could unsee.
It's no worries, thank you for the link. Also thank you so much for all your feedback you've been a big help and I really appreciate it!
4 years, 7 months ago