Pros and Cons of dating your OC

Posted 5 years, 5 months ago (Edited 2 months, 27 days ago) by Hag

just saw this on tumblr and thought it'd be hilarious to consider for anyone/everyone!!!

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so instead of getting asked, just go ahead and post who you're talking about and their pros and cons!

bonus points if your character answers this IC. (cause we all know some of these OCs are huge liars and boasters lol)

Two-Faced TheRadiance

Cole: "Ohh, you'd be so lucky to date my brother! He's smart, handsome and the most mature of the two of us [whisper: boring..]. He's quite shy when it comes to romance though, so ladies better pick me instead!!"

Cade: "Why are you whispering if I'm right next to you? 💀 Beware that if you date him you might get annoyed for how much LOUD and obsessed he is. Please spare me, I don't want to hear my brother talk about his new crush for hours."

v Congrats you now have two boyfriends HAHJSNA

Eysouel

TheRadiance i have a question.

What happens if someone where to date the both of them...

✨Midnight Anderson✨ Danxrtl_Art

Pros

• He can take care of his partner when they're sick

• He's financially stable

• puts effort in everything that he do for his partner

• He can cook

• Doesn't drink wine or anything that can be unhealthy

• respect people's boundaries

• Likes sweets and cats


Cons

× can't drive a car

× Has a higher chance to reject you

× Can be threatening if he notices someone flirting w/ his partner

× Can be a huge tease to his partner

× He's only affectionate towards his loved ones

×  jealousy exist 🤌

Cecil Schiffer Vicquemare

Pros:

Will steal anything for you

Will probably beat up somebody for you

Will drive you anywhere you want on his motorcycle

Will say "I got a spot" and actually take you somewhere cool that isn't some random K-Mart parking lot


Cons:

Waaaay too attached

Lives with two other people that are kind of like family authority figures? Not really? Anyways, he doesn't own the place he lives and probably will stay with them for the rest of his life. But the room is free, so.

Daddy issues

the home depot employee charmingterror

pros:

-  has a job
- employee of the month
- the best

cons:

- he likes men sorry women
- he will not work anywhere else
- i think he's insane

Isaiah apodoforcas

he absolutely will and is (pros)

be flexible with household and familial roles

always be there for you in every minute of your life for talking

take comfort and comfort you any day any time

good with money

be cool with your family

very encouraging to you


however (cons)

he will reject you because he only likes one guy, who he is too scared to be with anyways, even though he considers him “the love of his life” and he is way to overly attached on this guy and has been fixated on this guy for literal years, mans been constantly on his mind for that long

Alter Shiyuyu

Pros

- he can take care of household chores, excepting for cooking. Please never put him in the kitchen

- He’s extremely affectionate

- he has an incredible amount of patience, maybe.

- he owns several guns

cons

- he’s probably somewhat deranged inside, you need to keep an eye on him

- might accidentally start a fire out of nowhere

- Is actually extremely shy to strangers

- he owns guns??

Uhkir Sneakyy

Pros

  • Extremely loyal once he trusts you.
  • Will upkeep a lovely garden for you
  • Will take you to the bakery quite often, probably a gift-giver in his love language since he can generate an endless amount of gold to spend
  • I think he'd like cuddles too :)

Cons

  • Will be hard for him to learn how to trust you
  • Awful communication skills and he could come across as uncaring and cold
  • Due to his distrust of people, will be suspicious of everyone you talk to, which comes across as jealousy
  • If you break his trust even once, it's over.
Sullivan ♥ Frostsol

Pros

  • Loyal man, but doesn't have any issue with his partners having multiple partners.
  • Expect random gifts, mostly because his birds bring him stuff and he doesn't know what to do with it. He also draws. (Ex: Feathers, Beads, Shiny baubles, Drawings)
  • He's rich. ;3
  • Lots of medicinal knowledge.
  • He likes animals.
  • Honest to a fault, unless it's about his feelings.
  • Good manners for the most part.
  • Highly skilled in most things and is a fast learner.
Cons
  • Trust issues, it'll take a lot to earn his affection at first and even longer if his trust is broken in the first place.
  • Awful communication skills, he's rather cold and analytical when not in a domestic scene which often translates into him seeming disinterested or uncaring toward whoever he's conversing with. Usually, he's really just stressed tho.
  • Pessimistic, don't expect any cheerful pep talks. He's more likely to use dark humor or sarcastic remarks.
  • He's terrified of fire, hence not being able to cook unless in a modern AU.
  • His work takes him away for months at a time.
  • Over-protective, if he thinks something you're going to do is remotely dangerous he'll sit on you to keep you from going if he has to.
  • His birds steal things. Hide your jewelry.
  • If you don't like weapons or blood, don't even think about interacting with him. He literally lives for both.

(IC) "You're interested in me? Seriously? Did... you get dropped on your head as a kid or something? You know what? Nevermind. Uh- I live a dangerous life, and I can't promise one day I won't just up and disappear. Not willingly. Of course. Believe me when I say if we're close, nothing except death itself could keep me from you. Skills? Skills... What do you- oh. Ooooh, um. I know my way around just about anything that can well- hurt someone. Knives. Guns. Maces. I could probably turn a lamp into a weapon if I wanted to, but if you mean more... domestic things? I'm decent at cleaning, gathering, farming, and hunting but don't expect me to do any cooking. Fire and I don't exactly get along very well." Sullivan stopped talking to gather his thoughts, one gloved hand lifting to rub at his shoulder. His brows furrowed then relaxed. Wash-rinse-repeat. Finally after a long pause, he clicked his tongue and opened his mouth again. 

"I don't know if it's any credit or not- but, I'm a decent field medic and I know my way around poisons and herbs. So I can treat basic illnesses or bites from insects or other venomous things. Other than that- the only thing I can think of is that my drawing skills are good. I also enjoy cuddling or gift-giving, provided said gifts aren't stolen by Remy or the other Ravens. Was that too much? No? Cool." He hummed, already deciding he needed a break, and turned to leave. However, he did give a slight flick of his hand an indication or offer to join him perhaps?

The Huntress TheRadiance

Cons
- Is a monster
- Is scary
- Is VERY tall (trust me that's not a pro)
- Has no face
- Can rip your skin off anytime

Pros
- Woman 😍

Asteria Star-Seeker thalassophobic

PROS:
💚 Adventurous -- Anything you're into, she'll be willing to try.
💚 Affectionate -- She doesn't hold back, she'll absolutely shower you with love
💚 Knowledgeable -- She's a scholar at heart. She knows a lot about a lot of things.
💚 Noble Heritage -- She's descended from an old noble family, in case that's important to you.

CONS:
💔 Fickle -- She might get bored of you quickly.
💔 Troublemaker -- She's a trickster and gets into a lot of trouble.
💔 Habitual Liar -- Sometimes she just tells people made-up shit up for fun.
💔 No Secrets -- You won't be able to keep secrets from her.
👁 She's got no depth perception. Don't throw her anything for God's sake.

Dallas Raine CherryRamune

Pros:

- Great for tech support, can solve just about whatever tech problem you may have.
- As a good listener, they are always taking in as much information about the world around them and are not likely to forget even seemingly trivial details about their partner.
- Dedicated and loyal to their partner(s), they would go to the ends of the world for those they hold dear.
- Loves to spoil their partners rotten, giving them whatever their heart desires (within reason).
- If your love language is physical touch, then this gryphon is for you. Their favourite thing to do with their partners is to feel them against their own feathers and fur, feeling the warmth and soft heartbeats mingling together.

Cons:

- A wild child and avid partygoer, they're not one to sit idly by when there are connections to be made. While this might be good for a partner that is more extroverted, they have a tendency to focus on everyone in a setting and tend to not give their partner exclusive attention during these events.
- Prone to fits of hyperactive mania and reckless behaviour. While they are never one to intentionally hurt themselves during these episodes, they are much more likely to get into a variety of accidents.
- Breaking up with them can get kind of ugly, as depending on the reason for the breakup, you can assume most of your tech will be either slowly corrupted (or in more severe cases such as their partner cheating on them) straight up completely locked down via encryption malware.
- Does not want to get married or have children, as the idea of that deep of a commitment and safety of their family is something they cannot assure in their field of work.

Neutral:

- They're a hard night owl, so getting them up during daylight hours is not always the easiest task. But, this is a match made in heaven for other night owls.
- Prefers polygamy to monogamy, but this is not a hard and fast rule and can always be discussed with any potential partner.
- Collects retro tech (such as old consoles and computers) with a passion. To some, this has been described as a waste of time and money, as they pour countless hours into the restoration and preservation of the systems and consoles they acquire over the years.
- While they love visiting the quiet countryside, they cannot foresee themselves ever settling in such isolated places as the lack of amenities and things to do turns them away from the idea entirely.


"While I appreciate your heartfelt confession, I'll be completely honest with you. It's not easy to love someone like me. My job frequently has me moving from place to place, gone with the wind in search of new leads. Not to mention, I have been told that I am a tightly-wound coil, ready to spring at any moment should the desire take me. So, if you're looking for someone to settle down with and have a calm and carefree life, then I might not be the one for you. But, that is not to say that I don't give my all to those who still wish to pursue such capers with one such as myself."

Mia AlGore

Pros:

* She's very passionate about what she and her friends/SOs are into, she will always want to strike up a conversation about something

* She is a very affectionate person

* She loves listening to other people's stories/perspectives on things

Cons: 

* She won't fly you on her back, she's not strong enough

* Can't drive (she really doesn't need to considering she can fly) 

* Extremely shy