Pros and Cons of dating your OC

Pros of dating Jacob:

-He's affluent and enjoys his job.

-He likes animals.

-He dresses well.

-He's in good shape and likes to do athletic things, including dancing.

-He's intelligent.

-He's good at networking and probably "knows a guy" for whatever you need.

Cons of dating Jacob:

-He has a fear of intimacy. While he has no problem closing deals and upkeeping professional relationships, he struggles with personal ones.

-He's kind of grouchy, and sometimes takes life too seriously.

-He gets up way too early in the morning.

-He can't cook.

-He's hung up on his tragic past and traumatized by it.

-He's not very sexually experienced.

Neutrals about dating Jacob (things that can either be a pro or a con, depending on what you're looking for in a partner):

-He's definitely a bottom.

-He doesn't mind having kids.

-He dislikes social events and will only go if there's some sort of networking opportunity.

-He doesn't drink alcohol or coffee, and he doesn't smoke.

-His parents are long-dead (could be a pro if you don't like dealing with in-laws).

-He travels a lot for work.

-If you're a woman, he's not interested.

because he's the only character of mine i've thought about relationship stuff with

pros:

• he's an animal guy, loves animals, especially cats so bonus for his s/o if they love cats too
• has ALL the good food. he usually eats a lot so he knows all the good restaurants and hole-in-the walls, and he's also become a decent cook for himself. he'd absolutely spoil his s/o with some good ass food
• employed, yippee! he's got a good income and can treat you well
• and he can also get you free therapy and prescriptions because that shit is expensive

• pathological liar. he's got so many secrets and he's not talking about them ever
• he's also just traumatized by his past. still won't explain any of it to his s/o, he's not able to build that kinda trust to reveal anything
• his place is a MESS. and he stinks. and he's probably diseased he works in the grossest conditions and with the worms™ so like
• he's that partner who just wants to bite your arm casually yeah that's him. he's also a cannibal but that's unrelated 😁 biting is just his love language

depends:

• there's times where he will get VERY clingy and just wants someone to hold or someone to hold him. he just needs physical affection right  then and there. depending on the person and kinda the hour it could definitely be too much or just a really good cuddle session
• he's like. 43. grown ass man. or babygirl
• he can't have kids, depends on if someone would even want kids or not (but don't worry the cats are already his kids he's a proud father)

Pros

• Athletic -- Myka plays exy in college and will eventually go pro, she stays in shape and it shows
• Understanding -- Myka might be strong willed and opinionated, but she's willing to listen to other people's perspectives and accept that they don't agree with her; unless someone's opinion is actively harming her or the people around her, she'll simply accept the difference and move on
• Communicative -- It's taken a lot of hard work and many lost friendships, but Myka now loves to communicate. She's happy to share her needs with her partner, her hopes, desires, and the things that bother her; whether this helps anything, though, we're not sure
• Easy to please -- Myka's very happy with the simple things in life, she's never expected much of anyone so it is incredibly easy to impress the girl; one bouquet with her name on it and she's set

Cons

• Quick to pass judgement -- Once Myka decides she doesn't like someone or something, she's not afraid to leave without warning; it can be an arbitrary decision, everything fine one moment and the next, she refuses to look at you or speak to you
• Undeniably sad -- Bluer thoughts have a chokehold on Myka, it's been rough holding herself together to get this far in life and sometimes she doesn't know if she can keep doing it; she uses her partner as a life raft and frankly, sometimes she seems like she's got knives for fingers the way she can drag a person down with her
• Addictive personality -- Myka does her best to partake in as few substances as possible, her alcohol and weed use are limited exclusively to mutual times with her partner or her best friend; late in college, when she was sure she wouldn't make it to graduation and her long-term partner left her (albeit only briefly), she went down a deep sinkhole of substance abuse beyond those listed. She is very aware of the choices she makes in that regard, now, but knows her control is incredibly limited

IC

Lol omggg

Pros:
Great in bed (switch)
Good at making you feel special
Famous = Rich
Eye candy
Sexy voice

Cons:
Severely traumatized no therapy
Doesn't actually know how to love
Actor ^
You're dispensable
Doesn't trust you

Nul is a pretty rich boy, while kinda closested to the public, behind closed doors he is gayer then gays. He was born unable to feel pain and has sociopathic tendencies.

Pros: He is very rich, and anything you get can be bought easily without complaint from him. Good sex He will adapt to your emotions and react as you need/want

Cons: Too many to count. He only eats cereal for most days. He comes off as blunt or rude when speaking He doesn't date for love or anything, but a more semi permanent sex partner that lives with him

Pros:

8 foot tall monster! Wow!

Will be completely and utterly devoted to the right partner

dislikes most humans, but not picky as far as partners go

unique fashion

open-minded towards new food and music

Cons:

8 foot tall monster. Can't go out in public.

either deeply unserious or dead serious

nearly has to be kept on a leash when in human form

anger issues which manifest as growling and biting

messy

in summary: just don't

Alr not 100% connected to his canon lore but still accurate and in character (if that makes sense)

Pros:

"im super hot and cool" - val

I'm jk. Real pros:

- Neat freak when it comes to his own space, tries to stay minimalistic with his things because he knows himself and would probably make a mess if he had a lot of stuff

- Really likes and plays music if you're interested in that - will likely show you his endless CD collection and will talk to you about whatever song he's very obsessed with

- Has his own band. Will be very enthusiastic (and a little embarrassed) if you were to come watch him

- Enjoys fashion and indeed knows how to make clothes for fun _{(and could make you a fursuit.)}

- Likes to draw sometimes!

- Good at listening and giving advice, albeit he can sometimes be brutally honest without knowing lol

- bro loves to drive he is the most enthusiastic about driving people around and showing them cool places

Cons:

- Is a very heavy cig smoker. He's very clean, but he almost always just faintly reeks of cigs if you don't like that

- Uh. Has a frenzied state? Where he pretty much just becomes kinda zombie-like? If you don't want your stuff getting bloody on accident stay away (but this is usually only triggered during specific circumstances)

- Kind of slow to show you/initiate any physical or verbal affection due to past experiences and backstory reasons, but if you initiate physical affection he will go all out lol

- Bro can and will infodump about his interests. Especially if it's music. Or some like, random information about something he found that he's hooked on in the moment.

- Sometimes takes things literally and then asks what you mean by whatever you say. (I.e. if you say "I ain't going nowhere" he will be like "So you're going somewhere?")

Pros:
bisexual
big ass estate... (doesn't expect you to clean, but this is more of a neutral)
sooo many books. so many.
good voice. GREAT at mingling with people. amazing social skills.
WILL make sure you're well taken care of
will probably die soon because of his own stubbornness. for the people interested in inheritance
occasionally indulges in shrooms (specifically, teas) and edibles, but will not join you for a smoke sesh. only smokes cigars.
will embrace your interests with open arms (but in the awkward way that a parent supports your interests--with confused and attempted understanding)

Cons:
questionably acquired artifacts/vintages. shouldn't these be in a museum?
oh his house is ALWAYS a mess. maximalism but very disorganized. when he does clean, it's a hollywood clean (so basically surface level cleaning)
likes his space, especially when immersed in a "project". WILL get really distant, and it can go on for weeks.
will mansplain things to you, i'm afraid...
rutting. so much scratched up shit in the house from his antlers during that season.
sugarcoats his honesty towards you, but is openly critical of others, and that may hurt some.

Pros:

- Kind, always listens to the input of others

- Lots of pets!

- Magic!!!

- Has a good sized library

- Nice house out near the forest

- Floof = good cuddles

Cons:

- Might accidentally turn into a werewolf and eat you- then be incredibly upset and run away to the mountains for years :’)

Ooo fun!

pros:

- Great fashion sense

- Will make sure you are cared for

- Hugs! Lots of hugs!

- Wont judge you (sometimes)

Cons:

- Will drag you into doing stuff for the funnies

- Might randomly traumadump onto you

- Will insist on being a beekeeper until you agree, and now you have a bunch of bees in your garden and a million sting because neither of you know anything about beekeeping

- Paint splatters EVERYWHERE

Pros: he has a cool dad at least‼️…. 

Cons: literally going to strap you to an autopsy table probably.

I'm angry at Starscream for existing and killing my husbands and sparklings.

Pros: I'll protect you with my spark

Cons: You'll possibly get killed by Starscream

PROS: 

Very affectionate and sweet, would literally do anything you ask of him. 

CONS:

He's killed like 5 people

(OOC) 

Pro's:

- Ika is fiercly loyal to whom he cares dearly about

- great for warm snuggles atop the cold mountains

Con's:

- he cares to a fault, choosing to push loved ones away lest he hurt them again. 

- he's a deadbeat dad

Pros:

• Will write and play you songs on the piano
• Bilingual
• Loves Shakespeare, and may end up reading it to you before bed
• Has a soft spot for most animals
• Will talk to you for hours about his studies
• A great listener
• Actually very cuddly once you can get him to sit down and relax
• Likes to give you flowers
• Likes making you smile, and laugh, and will do anything to get you to

• An insomniac
• Has frequent nightmares
• Takes a long time to trust people
• Has a demon living in his head
• Forgets things that aren't related to his studies (date nights, appointments, anniversaries, holidays, etc.) 
• Needs to be reminded to take care of himself
• Hates going out in public
• Red-green colorblind
• A people pleaser